Personally I’m a big fan of weight training because (1) women often ignore that sort of training in favour of heavy cardio, (2) I love getting more muscular (that toned look), and (3) it definitely helps with pole!
Because pole requires a lot of upper body strength in order to lift yourself up and hold yourself there, I would focus on those areas: arms, back, and chest muscles. Before my regular gym closed and ran away with our membership money (true story!), I liked doing:
– Dumbbell and barbell rows for your back (make sure good form when you lift heavier to prevent injuries)
– Lat pulldowns and inverted rows in preparation for pull-ups
– Pull-up negatives are also good in preparation for pull-ups (jump to the top and then slowly lower down w/ control)
– Bench press – yes, with a barbell! I know it may seem intimidating but start w/ an empty bar at first
– Bicep and hammer curls, tricep exercises, etc. I know Veena has some forearm/wrist exercises, too, because those small muscles are so often forgotten.
– Military press would be good for shoulders I believe
– Woodchops with a medicine ball or cable machine
Anytime you move a heavy weight with your whole body (not in a machine) it activates your core and stabilizer muscles, so core work doesn’t necessarily mean doing crunches only. Some people at the gym do walking lunges with a barbell across their backs, I’m sure that works a whole lotta muscles!
I vastly prefer doing all barbell exercises NOT in a Smith machine (that machine that has the barbell on an up-down track) because on a Smith machine, the machine stabilizes the barbell for you, therefore less muscle engagement.
A simple weight training app that I used in the past is called Stronglifts 5×5, and it is free to download. It focuses on just a few lifts (bench press, squat, row, overhead press, and deadlift).