The author expressed feeling self-conscious about their body and hesitant to share their poling journey on social media. They asked if others in the community experience similar struggles and how they cope with them.
What the replies say: Many members shared that they also struggle with body image, and found that sharing progress online, even privately at first, could boost confidence. Others suggested focusing on clothing that makes you feel good, and remembering that social media often presents a curated view of reality.
AI-generated, may be imprecise · updated 9/9/2026
