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  • Is it wrong to prefer learning pole at home??

    Posted by Quirkygrl16 on September 12, 2013 at 10:17 pm

    I feel like I’m wrong for wanting to learn pole at home over a studio. I did attend a studio for 2 months once a week, so I have a lot of my basics down… I just feel at home I can focus on what I want to and learn more at my own pace and not compare myself to others as much … :/

    Quirkygrl16 replied 10 years, 8 months ago 16 Members · 28 Replies
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  • DestinyPoles

    Member
    September 12, 2013 at 10:53 pm

    It's never wrong to do what feels best for you, but I think the two compliment each other ! You can go to a studio and let them help you, and then come home and work on certain things that you had difficulty with a little bit more. (: Veena's wonderful lessons make it very possible to learn pole at home, and she definitely shows you the correct way to do things and in the correct order. Sometimes, I'm so uncoordinated that I find it hard to copy exactly what I see someone else doing. For certain things I understand more when I can have someone correct my grip or tell me what I'm doing wrong in real time. It just depends, but I think both are essential !

  • Krissykiki

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 1:01 am

    You are not wrong for preferring to pole at home, but you should still take the time to decide if this is the right decision for you. I actually just wrote a blog about deciding if poling at home is right for you. Take a read through it, I hope it helps 🙂

    http://krissykiki.blogspot.com/2013/08/so-you-wanna-learn-pole-dancing-at-home.html 

  • Krissykiki

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 1:03 am

    You are not wrong for preferring to pole at home, but you should still take the time to decide if this is the right decision for you. I actually just wrote a blog about deciding if poling at home is right for you. Take a read through it, I hope it helps 🙂

    ​http://krissykiki.blogspot.ca/2013/08/so-you-wanna-learn-pole-dancing-at-home.html

  • Quirkygrl16

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 8:45 am

    I still plants attend the studio for workshops and what not, but it’s just too expensive for me to continue to go to studio classes weekly. I only went once a week to begin with and every time i went back I felt like I had regressed

  • Lee lee

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 9:17 am

    (From personal experience) learning through a studio can be great, if you find the right place. It’s safer to have someone there to spot you, to adjust your hands or legs if you are in a move wrong, and nothing beats that moment when you get a move/spin/pose and the entire room bursts out clapping.

    BUT if you’ve been attending a studio that is unsupportive, unsafe or just doesn’t make you feel good about your self, then it isn’t the best place for you. Perhaps you are one of those students who will do better learning stuff on her own and then going back to a studio for a refresher class or to work on something you just can’t get on your own. You certainly have the best pole lesson resources at this site to help you (and us too!)

  • Quirkygrl16

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 9:21 am

    Exactly how I feel. It’s not they try are unsupportive I’m just not jiving with the studio right now

  • Lee lee

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 9:26 am

    Then I think you have the right idea. Go back for workshops and whatnot.

    In order to pole successfully at home, I would suggest making yourself a schedule. It doesn’t have to be far in advance or anything, but at least write out what you want to work on (warm up, strength, conditioning, moves, stretching) so that you don’t overwhelm yourself each time you step up to your pole

  • Quirkygrl16

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 9:32 am

    I plan to do that for sure. If i don’t schedule it out nothing will get done, lol

  • Lee lee

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 9:42 am

    What I found works for me is I will take either a 30 Day Take Off or (in the case of now) Ab challenge and expand on that. So my pole schedule might involve doing one of those, a warm up, working on 2, 3 or 4 moves on both sides and then stretching.

  • Quirkygrl16

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 9:45 am

    Sounds like a good plan for sure .

  • PoleFitMom

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 10:35 am

    I only learned pole dancing at home, I now own a studio and teach several times a week (have been teaching for 3 years). I still do my best dancing when I am in the privacy of my own space at home!

  • Scarlett Honey aka Lola Grace

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 6:28 pm

    I think a studio can help you when learning the basics as a beginner and be great for socialising, motivating and supporting you, but like you I also prefer to train on my own. I get the most out of my pole dancing when I have the space and privacy to relax and really feel the music. I think learning solo is much better for developing your own unique style too! Often studios can create very repetitive and formulaic, stylised dancing that might not be true to who you are. So go for it! Don't feel worried about it! 

  • Scarlett Honey aka Lola Grace

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 6:28 pm

    I think a studio can help you when learning the basics as a beginner and be great for socialising, motivating and supporting you, but like you I also prefer to train on my own. I get the most out of my pole dancing when I have the space and privacy to relax and really feel the music. I think learning solo is much better for developing your own unique style too! Often studios can create very repetitive and formulaic, stylised dancing that might not be true to who you are. So go for it! Don't feel worried about it! 

  • PixiLouBell

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 7:33 pm

    ive never been to a studio so i dont kno the difference, but ive developed in tricks and dancing on my own at home just fine i think!

  • CapFeb

    Member
    September 13, 2013 at 7:44 pm

    I think it depends on the studio, honestly. Where I live there's only one decent studio for 400 miles. And while I love going to it, it's 50miles from me! And it's not that my instructor is bad, but this is just an example. I love my instructor to pieces, she is amazing. But I would feel more inclined to go to my studio if I had a pro at it. I learned a lot of things at pole expo this year that I haven't seen taught in any other studios (I've been to ones outside of my state as well.) Just do what works best for you. 

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