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Husband wants to take me to a strip club
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Lol Trena, thanks!
I’m the exact opposite – if my partner is going to a stripclub I don’t want to be in the know at all – I don’t want to hear about it, I don’t want to have anything to do with it. I don’t think he would ever get a lapdance, but if he did I really really really don’t want to know. I wouldn’t ever want him getting a dance with somebody – I know all the tricks, I know what goes on, and even though there’s nothing X rated or below the belt, the whole thing is designed to put X rated ideas in their brains. It’s not sex, but it’s very sexual and it’s supposed to be an intimate experience, just without touching anything naughty. There are a million little things… like in my club there is no mouth contact. But some of the girls will breathe on the guys necks to simulate mouth contact. There’s no touching below the waist, but you make them think that you’re GOING to touch them below the waist and then not do it, and watch the disappointment all over their faces. Fun! But I don’t want HIM getting excited about the idea of somebody else doing that! He doesn’t want me coming home from work and going ‘Omg I had this awesome dance with a muscly army guy…’ same goes for me. I don’t want to know about ANY hot chicks he was checking out.I’m insanely hypocritical, but that’s how I feel… I don’t mind him going into clubs with his mates, mostly because he is the kind of guy who wouldn’t normally go in there anyway. I think after being with me so long and meeting so many of my friends from the club he can appreciate women without lusting after them, especially when it comes to pole dancing (when I’m watching pole dancing vids I’ll often see him look up and go WOAH!)… but the whole point of a lapdance is to encourage the lusting. If he went out with his friends and got a private show and I found out I wouldn’t be upset, but to know the details and to see it going on are very different.
And just for the record, I would definitely fly halfway across the world to hit strip clubs with Sascha – I can guarantee that will be much more fun than with your man!
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I went one night with my boyfriend and a girl name Brit and her bf Kyle.
I did not have fun. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cry.gifI won’t go into it. But if you’re even a slightly jealous type, don’t bother. It’s not worth the fight afterwards when your boyfriend tries to get some from you because he’s thinking about all the girls he got to see naked.
If it’s amateur night, and you’re comfortable with it (you wouldn’t have to take off more than you are comfortable with, anyway, I wouldn’t think) go for it, but as you’re having doubts…maybe you’re not ready.
Some time in the future, plan a trip to somewhere for vacay and see if the area has a classy joint with an amateur night. That way you can write it off as "crazy vacation happenings" and it won’t have to be trailer park six month pregnant and obvious bum acne strippers, like it was where I went.
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i agree with veena~ do your homework!
The 2nd club I went to with my hubby, he actually warned me ahead of time (i had just came from wa to be with him and he was stationed in ne and so hes been to this club before)
that for some reason these girls, if theres a girl by the stage, they have been known to pull them on the stage, n go down on em~…. so yeah
my friend that had been taking classes with me in omaha shes like i wanna get closer im like uh uh! fk that noise! lol i think she was mad for a while but if she understood why id rather stand back n watch.. yeah .. ROFL!
i dunno Ive been to 4 stripclubs and i do agree, all the girls I met are oober sweet and talented. and for some reason when i watch them.. you notice they are human and they too have flaws.. and i start to feel better about myself ^^ its like things we think are gross about ourselves.. guys pay to have it shake in their face~ O-o lol
so yeah i dunno i just wish i had move money for the girls when i go =) i tip for pole tricks© LOL
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Here’s my 2 cents…
Set some boundaries, do your homework and try it out!
Set boundaries such as,
Sitting at a table in the middle of the club (as opposed to the tip rail.
Whether any contact is ok (tipping dancers, lap dances, sitting on laps, etc)
Amount of time to stay there (I recommend staying at least an hour)
Whether you will be drinking (alcohol can complicate things)Do your homework about the clubs in the area
Go on a Friday or Saturday night when it is easy and in full swing
There will also be more Dancers on the weekend
Picking a club where girls are topless only and in gowns will probably be easier to be comfortable inI personally love strip clubs and worked at one as a bartender a few years ago. I never saw anyone use a
Pole as more than something to hold when they were drunk. Lol. And now I can’t keep hands off one! -
I really wanna go with my boyf too just to see the pole work. My boyf reckons they won’t be doing much on the pole and I will be dissappointed cos I can prob do more stuff than them. Still I wanna go.. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cat.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cat.gif
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You might get to see some great floorwork though https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
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Alot of the strippers really dont do the tricks, inverts etc. They do alot of floor work and basic moves on poles. I also look at what there wear and the shoes as well to get ideas. Thats where I saw the idea to dance en pointe. There are a few girls that did trick and are my faves (yep, thats how often I go, I have my fav strippers!).
I go not only with my friends but with just my husband as well. My husband loves when we both go since im the one who gets all the love from the strippers. Last time I bought all the drinks and his lapdance. He gets all ‘worked up’ from being there but he comes home w/me and I take care of it https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mrgreen.gif
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