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Has anyone worked as a dancer or a stripper in a club?
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I have actually been throwing around the idea of becoming an exotic dancer. I recently had my first club experience as a patron and I really enjoyed it; the girls made me feel empowered and actually brought back some sexuality I had been previously lacking. I also went specifically for a spiritual purpose, so most people probably don’t experience such a drastic change in enlightenment when they go to strip clubs. I did a TON of research, as that is my personality when I gain an interest in something, and I can second stripperweb.com, but also exoticdancernet.com has some good forum subjects. I definitely would recommend not going into exotic dancing because you need money; that may end up causing you to do things you normally wouldn’t do or be comfortable with. Unless, that is, you set boundaries and goals at the beginning so that you do not end up regretting anything. I, personally, want to try out exotic dancing purely for the power, fun, and an excuse to dance all night. I have a great paying career and just want to strip for the hell of it. My problem is I cannot work at clubs in my state because I have a higher profile job in which my face and name is widely posted (I’m in real estate). I have been tossing around the idea of taking a work vacation down to Vegas (I LOVE Vegas!!) for two or three months at the beginning of next year (to get the hell out of the Alaskan winter AND because there are a bunch of big conventions at that time which is great business). I’m a little on the fence because I haven’t talked to my boyfriend about it. We’ve been together for 8 years, so it is not a new relationship at all, but I mean, I have no idea how he would feel about it. He can get jealous at times which I think would ultimately be the cause of stress if I did end up dancing. This whole thing is more or less a big fantasy for me and has been since my Vegas strip club adventure in February. So, we will see how it all plays out. Make sure you do your research about the dos/don’ts of dancing and about the club you’re interested in. You can always go and talk to the girls if you can’t find any info out online of the club you’re interested in. Keep us updated on how it goes; I would be anxious to know how you like it!!
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but don’t ask too many questions to the girls you are actually going to be working with, that will make you look weak to them and they will try to fuck you over. i don’t say this to scare you, but dancing is extremely competitive. don’t tell the other girls too much about you at first until you see who you really can be friends with.
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I only know from a few of my dancer friends that not all the girls are out to fuck over newbies, but obviously you always get your back stabbing bitches like anywhere else and it may be more predominant in this industry because it is more competitive. As long as you aren’t pestering them and following them around like a lost puppy, you should be fine asking the girls questions. But, make sure you pay for their time; they are there to make money, not be the queen of Q&A. Also, ask for some dances and tip them if they show you how to do lapdance moves. Most of the girls I’ve met are pretty outgoing, so just be polite and fun; I think you’ll recognize who to talk to and who not to. Oh!! And I found another great resource for dancing questions and such: survivetheclub.wordpress.com. Check it 🙂
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Little secret…whenever you go to a new club to dance u out will feel isolated and the girls working there…or at least some…will be bitchy. This isn’t because you are competing for clients or jealousy its because you just walked into their club and they will wait til you can prove yourself, ie whether you have the chops to do the job. They want to know that you can hang and handle the job….most of them it is their second home and they just want to protect it!
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