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I think I saw some shorts on Mika that had sparkles on them that were not flashy like the sexy clothes you find I thought they were nice because they didn't look overly sexy but had a little sparkle to them.
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@wold Lotus what is Spirlina if you don't mind me asking….
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ok, so I had to see THE pic…you look amazing!!!!! PERIOD!!! If I looked like that my hubby would have a hard time convincing me not to give him one for his desk of course I ralize it would be at his job so he couldn't or everyone in the office would be poling or their wives poling in the closet God forbid…hehehe..
but for real…you are dressed..and good lord I bet everyday I wish I had a shape like yours instead of mine…Since I started poling and got the concept of more skin and got some freakin self-confidence I find myself looking at polers and thinking if everybody knew what I know about it they would all be doing it. Besides I haave seen some FB bikini photos of women my age that made ME blush and good lord they did not look defined and toned and healthy like you.. I think it sterotyping and pure jealousy. If I ever get a shape like that my hubby is going to have to tell me to put some clothes on it! -
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Oh God hubby will kill me if I get another pair….lol the other night he said the light up heels keep lighting up in the closet and drove him nuts….lol but I dooooooooooo love my shoes now.
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ok so its the end of August and my first time back on the pole since New Year's was today but I might have to see what I can do tomorrow anyway. Hubby is away fishing so its the perfect time. It won't be great and super basic but at least I can get my first challenge of the year for me. lol
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I'll never be able to be a pole dancer like the rest of you guys just because of my disabilities but in my heart I was a pole dancer the first time I spun and said out well BOOM there it is…lol True there are polers out there who are so amazing its a wonder they don't have wings hidden somewhere but for some of us being a pole dancer is part of our spirit at least that's the way I look at it.
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funn thing…after I shattered my hip I thought if I do get back on the pole I'll never be able to wear my heels again..it took months before I would put anything on but flats or bare feet plus I'm one of the unlucky ones whose plate and pins surgery made one leg a little shorter https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif so after many months we went out to dinner and I got dressed up…and thought I'm gonna try some heels…well I looked pretty funny with heels and a cane but lo and behold that night I realized with the heels on I could walk without the cane…how bizarre is that! I'm still a little scared of them because I worry I'll stumble and I am completely paranoid about falling https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_eek.gif I was however happy happy that my heels are not something I have to just look at because since I started poling I have sooooooooo many pairs… https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif I haven't ried to pole in my heels again yet since I'm just now able to get back on it but I am hopeful.
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@firebird then I'm a weirdo too because I have the longest posts ever…lol
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because of crooked fused hands it is impossible for me to grip a pole like normal so I use mighty grip gloves with tack and wrist protectctor with tack over that. Of course I cannot do much on the pole right now but before the old hip shattered I found putting a little mighty grip or I think its ITac on my thighs and inside legs. I totally have chicken little legs and thighs so getting a good grip is hard for me. I wish I could manage without any tack or prodcut but I will probably always have to use it and the gloves which give me the extra padding so I can grip the pole. I didn't know about the pole issue with grip if you had pole thaat had sections…they also have mighty grip ankle grips with tack ..again without them I could pole because of my bones. So I am a mighty grip fan.
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try being in your late 50's and explaining… it gets interesting….lol in some cases when I'm asked how my hubby of 27 years feels about it… I say he's actually quite happy to have a little extra treat in his marriage and why would he need to go to the clubs when he has me at home. Well women my age tend to do one of three things…walk off calling me a name.https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_exclaim.gif…try to explain they would never allow their husbands to go to those clubs…https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gifuhhhh yeah right lady….and a few like my physical therapist wanted to know where I got my pole – took lessons and about SV online. Funny she looked the happiest of all the women. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_batman.gif
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I am going to try and use them starting next week just to start getting my self stretched back after my hip surgery in Jan. I've been a little scared about falling from the pole so I have been hesitant although i have the go ahead. It will be a start over for me since it has been almost 6 months since I broke my hip and femur. I can really feel the rods/pins/screws even when walking so I am in for a challenge.
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I used self-inject imitrex like 15 yrs ago. As with all migraine meds for me they work well for a while. I use maxalt now but I think the chest tightening is common as the meds constrict blood vessels. Having had headaches for 25 yrs I know how difficult they can be. One key thing is migraine meds generally only work for migraines. So if headaches are cluster, tension stress or something else they don’t work. Very important to know what kind of headache to treat it. I unfortunately have complicated combination headaches. When I take migraine meds and its a cluster type headache it doesnt touch it. 🙁 as many have said they sometimes get better as you get older. One nice thing about geting older.
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Well, we lost mom-in-law less than 2 weeks ago now so I can understand your pain about your sister….and although I am still hobbling about I may just have to give this one a try…obviously it won't be spinning and holds unless I want to break my other hip…lol so I may have to improvise….hugs
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after being stuck in this wheelchair I borrowed it has a 4 inch cushion, nicely durable cover..I was thinking when I get back on pole maybe getting four good thick ones and using my crafting skills to velcro them to each other..I woonder if that would work….
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I loved to see this article and that a reporter made the effort to correct his misinformation. Too bad a lot of commenters are still locked in their stereotypical visions of the OMG stripper but those will never change their mind nor do they probably involve themselves in a serious form of athletics to understand what it takes to do even the first baby steps of this sport.
As I sit in this wheelchair knowing it will be months before I cannot make my muscles do my will on the pole again I truly understand how much I miss it and I was just a newbie and not far along.
you can never change everyone's opinion but what I love is seeing more and more older people talking positive about that is also a great step in a positive instruction. I shared this on my facebook page. Although few know I have TWO poles in my house my therapist has become so enthralled with the idea when she comes to work with me at home I plan on passing Venna's site on to her. I suspect she will be yet another poler in the making.
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Thanks guys thats why I love it here…so many smart peeps! 🙂
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I busted out laughing after scrounging the internet for 5 hours looking for a piece of flat shiny mat I saw on one of the Veener poler videos…I am all over the world looking for someone who would have the concept that I don't want it for protection I want it because I want to a smooth floor under my feet,,,
so i found what looked like a bunch of pretty pole intelligent people who understood what I was looking for so I quickly to h=go the forum,,,,,,,and it was ours. LOL maybe my poling home is the best place to find answere..lol
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I totally wish I was good enough to do pole parties or teach even easy stuff…Since there is no where to learn in this sleepy Georgia town I bet there are some ladies just pining away to try it…I was! LOL Of course I would have been thrilled just to have someone to learn to chair dance..lol
I always love hearing from you..keep it coming for us pole thirsty small town girls.
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Oh sweetie I am so sorry! Just 3 weeks ago my daughter found the lockk on her storage cut and everything of value gone and her stuff dumped all down the street. We were digging through ditches and trash all over town for baby pictures, birth certificates, baby teeth and all those things you can't replace. They caught them…10 of them!!! All a bunch of crack heads who called their family to the storage after they broke into it and let them haul off what they didn't want..It was devastating because when she lost her job and moved in with us with her little one we tried to teach her to be responsible and store her own things..wow I felt like S**t when it happened. We have pics of my little grandson going through the trash and finding his thomas the train parts and his kindergarten first day aart. We all felt so violated. The idiots took her big wrought iron bed set a block away and sold it and we found it and the police were all over it…
I know you feel so violated, please report it, change your locks and know we can't stop this from happening AND we can't let them take away our sense of freedom. Stay strong and make sure your lanmdlord knows how upset you are and that he should change the locks immediatley as his responsibility. Here if you need to vent…I know I have done a lot of crying and yelling and cusrsing… 🙂
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Oh sweetie I am so sorry! Just 3 weeks ago my daughter found the lockk on her storage cut and everything of value gone and her stuff dumped all down the street. We were digging through ditches and trash all over town for baby pictures, birth certificates, baby teeth and all those things you can't replace. They caught them…10 of them!!! All a bunch of crack heads who called their family to the storage after they broke into it and let them haul off what they didn't want..It was devastating because when she lost her job and moved in with us with her little one we tried to teach her to be responsible and store her own things..wow I felt like S**t when it happened. We have pics of my little grandson going through the trash and finding his thomas the train parts and his kindergarten first day aart. We all felt so violated. The idiots took her big wrought iron bed set a block away and sold it and we found it and the police were all over it…
I know you feel so violated, please report it, change your locks and know we can't stop this from happening AND we can't let them take away our sense of freedom. Stay strong and make sure your lanmdlord knows how upset you are and that he should change the locks immediatley as his responsibility. Here if you need to vent…I know I have done a lot of crying and yelling and cusrsing… 🙂
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Having multiple accounts on facebook is a real pain I have several….
I have one for old high school friends, family,artists ect on one acct, then have another page for poling (the name I use here on Veena's) for what I like to call my artistic side…I have a lot of other interests that are not mainstream such as herbal healing, candle mediatation, my love of faery and goth. ect…when you get to be my age and have been born and raised strict religious background none of these things are looked on very well. So rather than deal with all of that I just decided to have a page where I can express myself freely and hopefully without reprecussions not so much against me but family and friends…(I have grandchildren and a devoutly religious sister who I adore and would probably accept it as me being outside the box as she knew I was the entire time I have been alive…LOL but I would never want to intentionally or unintentionally embarrass her or her family.)
I see nothing wrong with any of my views or poling but the world doesn't always see it that way. There are custody issues with my grandchild who lives with us as well and I would never put my daughter's custody at risk since they are under my roof. and NO, poling should not risk things like this in our lives but I have to realistic to some they just don't get it.
I am also in the process of starting a animal crossing page for animal rescue because I drive my family and friends NUTS with the shelter postings. LOL
I think the younger you are the more readily its accepted…my daughter has a attended a pole dancing class and it was no big deal but I would be the talk of my hometown…or at least the re-talk of my home town since I always was a bit of a boho chick to start with..lol
So in my opinion, consider who MAY see a video you forget to tag for only specific people or keep them tame but DON"T be ashamed or embarrased of poling just realize a lot of people equate it with "not nice girls" lol They have no idea how much work it is and that it is a sport for a lot of dancers….or how much fun they are missing)
by the way i WISH I was young sometimes just so I could go…you can stick it! lol But Veena is a great way for me to share videos which I need to do again…SOON!!!!
Happy poling!!!!!!!
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If it is not actually your photos it could be as someone who said…you have a hater….it seems so Jr. High but it happens all the time…and who thought people would be so jealous or freaked out by pole dancing pics??? But as we all know there are people out there who just can't help but believe all pole dancers are prostitues and trashy and must be stoppped at all costs…how stupid and insecure can a person be???? Then you have the jealous ones who rather than EVER consider trying the pole they would just rather pretend they hate it and that the only place for the pole and those that use it completely out of the public view…poor things don't know what they are missing…lol
Then they are the spammers….those are people who manage to get on your page somehow and post a close to nude pic of women usually…they really love the whole girl on girl thing. Most of the the time they actually blosck you the owner of the page from seeing it and it has a link to a porno site or video saying watch my girl have sex…the problem with those is they are a double-edged sword. If anyone sees it and marks as inappropriate or SPAM it goes against you the page owner… The problem I have found is that if it shows up on your page YOU NEVER EVEN KNOW! I figured this out after seeing a spam semi-porn pic on friends pages…I messaged them with a message like wow, I was shocked to see that sex link/pic on your wall…everytime they responded with "what picture????" of "Yes, someone told me about it but I never saw it"….so the spammers have managed yet again found a wormhole to come into on facebook users pages. Usually people who report it don't realize it will shut your page down and often they figure out whats going on and don't want to embarass you so they just click on this spam without realinf facebook assumes you are the culprit.
Its a bad situation with no real answer since spammers are so damned sneaky. So it could be someone who doesn't like you, or your pole dancing activity or just a gutless spammer out there trolling for hits on the link to his porno page. I don't think there is much you can do but I enjoy having my facebook page so if it happens to me I will inevitably do another page…lol
another suggestion is to set up a page for your pole dancing friends and activity. Less chance of someone who is your "friend" or "friend of a friend" reporting you.
I actually have 2 pages…because we all have a few bones in the closet we only share with our own circle of like friends. I follow a different spiritual path than the standard Southern Baptist Church route so I have a page where I am free to discuss and share that part of my life with friends of the same mindset. I mean my traditional family and friends freaked when they found out I attended a Uniterian Universalist church…no not a cult church lol…just a church that accepts people of all walks of life and spirtual paths without condemnation. Such as being a pole dancer is not an automatic qualification for hellsville! LOL I happen to be a person who believes that there must be a feminine side to religion because after all we women are the strongest and gentlest of the sexes. LOL Nothing too scary just different. I tend to share my pole dancing activities on that facebook page and have never had a problem.
just some thoughts….the internet is awesome but can have its down side…but please don't let that stop you from enjoying the best thing since sliced bread! POLE DANCING!!!
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I know how you feel my 11 yr old granddaughter was diagnosed with sever migraines and epilepsy. It was scary…she will just be walking and she falls to the ground. SCARY every single time too. Never get used to that stuff with kids. Thanks to meds she is much better and has even made fly girl on her cheerleading team. Bless your heart i hope she recovers quickly, I know we wish we could just jump in their body and let it be use instead of them. The good thing is that fever really can cause that kind of seizure which hopefully she won't experience again. Stay strong and yes I relate to getting puked on as well…not McKenna but my min-doxie who has seizures. She knows when one is coming and she heads for the door because she doesn't want to get sick in the house. Poor thing and then all I can do is talk her through like my granddahter. Sending prayers for the wee one and you and grandpa too. keep us up to date.
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wow RaRa your digital art images are so cool! Great work!
