poleisnewtome
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Isn’t it fair to say, though, that someone can have no hangups about nudity but doesn’t necessarily want to see a stranger’s crotch spread-eagle in front of her face?
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She might be ok with it, but that doesn’t mean that others are obligated to watch.
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@zoilife6233 I get what you’re saying. It’s hard to say without having been there witnessing it myself whether this woman stripped down because she was “celebrating her body” or if she felt like she had to perform in such a revealing way because she has been conditioned to think that is what men like.
You have every right to your mixed feelings, but don’t let it affect the way you think of yourself doing the same moves.
As far as what is sexy, I also go for the less-is-more route, but to each his or her own.
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Thanks. I don’t mind spending the money for something that fits me well, but I’ve had fit problems even with more expensive shorts.
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@AllysonKendal thank you, that’s good to know.
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To me, it looks like your grip is fine. If you are new, what is probably happening is that you haven’t developed enough strength in your arms and abs to support yourself on the pole, so you’re relying on the strength of your grip. Maybe I’m wrong, but this is what I THINK might be happening.
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I’d rather pole in a tight space than to pole in no space. I wish I could practice at home but I just can’t because my ceiling is too low. I was thinking of buying an x-stage and do it outside, but I’d only be able to use it half the year since half the year it’s way too cold. Anyone have a pole up in the garage? Again, I’d only be able to do that half the year because it would be too cold, but I’ve thought about it.
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Too bad I missed it tonight!
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I didn’t say they talked at length about pole dancing, but that pole dancing was mentioned.
I agree with you about the terminology and how it should be separate, at least the “stripper” part–not that theres anything wrong with it if that’s what someone chooses to do.
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I agree with both of you!
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The girls who are flexible and athletic are probably like that because they’ve been practicing for a lot longer. They were at the same level you are at once. You didn’t say how many classes you have attended at this studio so far, but it can be difficult for an instructor to teach to everyone’s individual skill level, especially if she has only met the students a couple times. If she did instruct with prepping and strengthening moves, that’s good. If you do feel welcome, like you said, then maybe give it some more time until the instructor gets to know you and your particular skill level better. Or try to go at a time where the class isn’t as full so that you could get some more individual attention. Good luck!
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I haven’t purchased the lessons because I don’t have a pole at home.
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@tblue But are the crib mattresses foam or spring mattresses?
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Might not be ideal for those with limited space…but for those people who have the space?
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This might be a stupid idea, but what about buying a mattress topper (they come in different thicknesses) and cutting it halfway through so that it can be slipped in around the pole? You can get a 5″ thick, full sized one for $119 on Amazon.
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I have the ankle protectors and they work great.
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@Veena Thank you, I will try those!
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@MightyGrip I have them and they work great.
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It’s not that I dont have the strength to climb, it’s that I have like no grip.
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I have a pretty wide thigh gap, plus I’m skinny, so climbing is very hard for me without ankle protectors. What other climbs would be easier?
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Welcome! Without getting too much into religion, it’s important to realize that sexuality is beautiful and dancing in a sexualized way can be beautiful. Of course, like anything else, it can be made raunchy or tacky. But even that is not inherently “wrong.”
Having said that, what I have seen so far are people who choose to pursue pole dancing as an overtly sexual dance form and others who downplay the sexuality and pursue the gymnastics/acrobatic side of it.
I think either is up to personal preference. It only matters that you have fun and get a good workout out of it. It also doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks.
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I struggle with motivation too. I think we all do, in some aspect. What helps me when I’m feeling particularly lazy is to commit to just 5 minutes of exercise. Committing to just 5 minutes is a whole lot more doable than committing to a half hour or more. Sometimes that 5 minutes becomes longer, because just getting up for those few minutes jump-starts the motivation. Sometimes that 5 minutes only lasts 5 minutes…but even if that’s the case I still feel like I accomplished something.
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@hookedonpole Thanks for the advice. I looked at the shorts on poledanceplayground and while the price is certainly right, I am worried about that front seam…I’m guessing it doesn’t bother you?
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Or that have that dreaded front seam…
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Same with me, regarding Bad Kitty. I wouldn’t even know which size to order, though, to be honest. I am so picky. I have yet to find a pair of shorts that cover, yet don’t give me a front and back wedgie.
