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WEBBY – please delete this entie discussion. Many thanks.

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Grrrr!!!!! Simply trying to hit backspace on my tablet and ended up posting this ridiculous and incomplete discussion. Really disliking the inability to self-moderate and delete unintended postings or edit mistakes in wanted posts….but I digress..

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My daugbter isn’t quite ready for schooling, but when she is, it will be done the homeschooling way. Since you’re just next to AZ, maybe you could plan to attend the annual homeschool conference that is held in Phoenix on July 11th and 12th. On July 10th, there’s a free mini conference that has an AMAZING introduction to learning style and curriculum that is as entertaining as it is informative. Even if you only come for the freebie, you won’t be disappointed. The conference gives you a chance to see all the curriculum in person and right next to other curriculum for easy comparison.

Here’s the link to more info:http://www.afhe.org/convention_details.html

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Oooohhh…VERY good questions that I would also like to know the answers to.

From my time as a gymnast more than 20yrs ago, we used to just practice, practice, practice until we got it. But my time as a gymnast was long before gymnasts incorporated weight training into the mix.

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Girl, I can totally relate to how you’re feeling right now. That’s exactly how I’m feeling about my pole practice and its incredibly frustrating. While I haven’t experienced this yet myself, I hear that if you just keep doing the things you CAN do while also continuing to build strength, the new more advanced moved will come.

Just keep getting back on the pole and this plateau will soon give way to tangible progress. You’ve GOT THIS! 🙂

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Hi Jenn!

I ordered my pole on a Tuesday, it shipped Wednesday, and it was delivered on that same Friday. I’m in the suburbs of Phoenix and the pole ships from Fresno, CA.

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Just to clarify, the SV pole is manufactured and shipped by Lil Minx.

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How disappointing for you! I am so sorry. The garage will probably work really well for the next several months. I’m in AZ and was thinking of a garage installation too then bringing it inside from May thru October.

If I’m correct, Lil Mynx will take it back and cut it down for you but you pay shipping. Randy amd Lizzie at Lil Mynx are so wonderful and I know they will do whatever they can to help.

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OH NOOOO!! I’m so disappointed for you. I hope fresh arms after a good night’s sleep will be all that you need to get your pole in place. Please keep me updated…mine should arrive tomorrow. (probably while I’m at work, so the hubs will get to receive the package)

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Here’s a listing for a 2pk of 2oz DryHands on Amazon for just over $20 incl shipping. Its a larger one-time expense, but the per-ounce cost gets cut but 1/3 or more (depending how much you pay for a 1oz bottle now).
http://www.amazon.com/Nelson-Sports-Products-Dry-Hands/dp/B00CPCH9WS/ref=sr_1_3_m?s=sporting-goods&ie=UTF8&qid=1392364309&sr=1-3&keywords=dry+hands

I have heard that Prince Grip Plus, which is made for tennis players to help combat sweaty hands, is a nice alternative to Dry Hands. Its available here for $7/bottle or $6.25/bottle when buying two or more.
http://www.tennis-warehouse.com/Prince_Grip_Plus_Moisture_Absorption_Lotion/descpagePRINCE-PGPLUS.html

Here’s just one poler review of Price Grip Plus, among other grip aids she has tried:
http://blog.nashvillepoleparty.com/2013/11/grip-aids-for-pole-dancing.html

I have also heard that Master Non Slip Grip Cream, which is made for bowlers to help combat slippery hands, is another cross-utilized pole grip aid. This is available at many bowling alleys for about $3/jar. Here’s an eBay listing for $4.50 incl shipping. Supposedly a little bit of this goes a very long way.
http://www.ebay.com/itm/like/360169606122?lpid=82

I’m super duper new to poling and I will be at a beginner level for a very long time. According to Veena’s guide for when its appropriate to begin learning spins, I am still years away from achieving that baseline standard. I have a terrible time with sweaty hands, but since I’m really not “allowed” to advance to more complicated moves, I’ve resisted the urge to purchase any grip aids. I have always wondered as well, once I can start the kind of pole work that is benefited by grip aid, if I’ll need to use it forever. I guess only time, or advice from experienced polers, will tell. 🙂

I’m not sure if any of this will be helpful to you, but I thought I’d share anyway. Happy Poling!!

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Very informative post AerialGypsy…THANK YOU! Having never heard of a matte finish for a dance pole before, I am even more intrigued than I was before. I’m such a sweat factory that the prospect of a sticky surface makes me salivate. lol

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@BigBaby1201…RIGHT?! This vid really is amazing and has me totally reevaluating my entire outlook on pole. Sooooo inspiring.

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Hi brookebat!

When I measured my “9-foot” ceilings, I discovered that after the flooring was installed, they dropped to 8’11.5″. Lizzie from Lil Mynx had me order the 9′-10′ pole and they chopped an inch off so that I would have the absolute maximum space available. I suggest double checking the actual measurement at the location you will likely install the pole, and order the longer of the two poles. In the “notes to seller” box in PayPal, simply note your actual ceiling height and Lil Mynx will custom cut the length for you at no additional cost.

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I didn’t mean your question was TMI, I meant that what I was about to share (re: my flow) would fit into the TMI category. Although…I love this community and I’m not sure if there is anything that is “really” TMI. LOL

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Does your drill have an “impact” setting? That will give it the extra “oomph” it needs to power through.

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This will DEFINITELY fit into the TMI category, but I tend to stay away from all kinds of activity on Day 2-3 because my flow can be INSANE on those days. I only stay away because I don’t want to have to break away from my practice frequently to check to see if I’m leaking or whatever. Since its only 1 to 2 days for me that I take off, I use that time for other stuff like flexibility training or a nice long session with my foam roller to ease the tender muscles that can come with my cycle. HTH!

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YAY for your first post! Welcome to the family. 🙂

I’m the same way…totally got in over my head with my chrome pole so I ordered the PC SV pole from Lil Mynx…arrives tomorrow. The thought of a Titanium SILVER pole is very interesting to me since I just can’t STAND that gold color. I know, I know…totally trivial, but what can I say? I’m shallow like that. LOL

Very interested to see what this thread uncovers.

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I had to have the length of mt pole customized, so I’m sure you can appreciate my amazement when I not only got tracking info today, but that my pole will be delievered TOMORROW!! I just can’t comprehend that turnaround time.

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@cij1916…HOW IN THE WORLD DID YOU NOT OPEN THE BOX????? lol I would feel totally taunted by the unopened box staring at me from the corner, giving me the side-eye.

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Hi JennRN35!

My 2.5y/o enjoys my pole as much, if not more, than I do. I do realize that her growing up with it in her life is different than it being introduced as a 7y/o.

Chosing whether or not to share your pole journey with those around you is as personal a choice as which pole is perfect for a particular poler, so what may work for me and my family, may not be as practical for you and yours. Happy Poling!

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Awwwwww shit! Super excited for you!!!

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Looks like you’re back in first place my dear…by a LONG lead now! Almost up by 100 votes!! I added my vote, not because you asked, but because I felt it was the best of the letters. You truly deserve this win and you know you’re going to have to show us the pics, right?! 😉

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Baby wearing is a great way for baby to feel securely “held” while also gives you use of your hands. Certainly this won’t jive for poling, but it may help ease those tired arms. I have used ring slings (great for hands-free breastfeeding), moby wraps, and a structured carrier similar in style to the Ergo. When selecting a carrier, I strongly urge you to avoid the “crotch-dangler” style of the (I don’t know why so) popular Baby Björn…these are both uncomfortable for baby and extremely damaging to baby’s hip growth.

At this age, being held is something babies expect to happen and, to a certain degree, need. In a month or two he will be able to support himself in a seated position which will open the door for a little self-guided entertainment and may even enjoy watching your pole time.

I know how frustrating it can be to feel a strong conflict between your motherly instincts and the habits we have formed as part of our 21st century lifestyle, but in two years when he’s too busy playing to be bothered with a snuggle, I doubt you’ll look back on this time and think “gee, I sure wish I had held him less.” This is time that you can’t ever get back and even though it feels like time is standing still right now, it goes by extremely quickly. Feel free to message me if you want to vent off the public discussion.

Hugs

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Darcit said “I’ve done this move on a PS stage pole before and felt it slightly lift off the ground.”

HOLY SHIT!! I can feel the vertigo kicking in just thinking about how that must have felt for you!!

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@Webby…be thankful you CAN’T see my happy dance right now! 😉

Looking forward to some real grip with the powder coat finish. Will certainly add a review here once I’ve used it a bunch.