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  • aliceBheartless

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    March 4, 2013 at 2:40 pm in reply to: Clearance Yoga hammocks and Pole Manuals

    yay! I found some awesome stuff I have been wanting for awhile now!

  • aliceBheartless

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    March 2, 2013 at 10:53 am in reply to: Help please – Can’t progress to next level

    The cat phrase comes from what cats are called: males = Tom cat, females = She cat. So the only time to use “she” is in reference to the cat’s mother. I think a big part of the “don’t use she situation” has nothing to do with not using pronouns, and everything to do with not using 3rd person pronouns in the presence of who you are talking about. Especially if the situation requires any sort of formality.

  • aliceBheartless

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    March 1, 2013 at 3:06 pm in reply to: Aerial Silk Portable Rig

    Agreed ^^^  I have never tipped the tripod rig I have used (it's not mine, but custom built for the company I performed with) but you definitely lose some height at the top. We only typically rig ours to 21 feet, but it does have the capability to be at  28-ish feet, I think.  And we have always performed silks on it, and even in the wind, it has never come close to tipping. Any rig, tripod or quad, can tip if it's not fixed/weighted, and especially if the act requires swinging. 

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 28, 2013 at 1:15 pm in reply to: Pole and aerial silk in Los Angeles or Las Vegas

    Contact Le Studio in Culver City. I know they have some top-notch aerial teachers there. I know that the website says something about private referrals, but I think it would be worth contacting the studio to find out. I have seen their kids performers, and they are insane. 🙂 I know also that Jenyne has performed in some of their events in the past. I don't think they do pole there but they are fairly comprehensive in other apparatus, including silk.

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 26, 2013 at 2:11 pm in reply to: Help please – Can’t progress to next level

    I believe that using "she" instead of a proper name is considered rude in some languages, particularly in the presence of the referenced "she". Especially when "she" is not a familiar. Like someone mentioned above, using the familiar du vs the formal Sie in German. I suppose theoretically on a forum, we're all present, all the time. Afterall, she is the cat's mother.

    I agree with checking out the next level, or taking the same level again with a totally different teacher. Often, we just need to hear things another way when i'ts an issue of mechanics. Seems like you feel a need for some change, because its no fun to be stagnant. I also think that sometimes stepping back from something that has challenged us to frustration is a good thing. We work on something else, gain strength, and come back to it later. Some moves just take a really long time to get. But while working on them, it helps to be learning some other moves/tricks/spins just to keep the mind fresh and satisfied. 🙂

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 21, 2013 at 3:48 pm in reply to: Xpole spider top anyone ??

    I forgot that I also have the iron X top in addition to bondage top and spider back. I love that one, too! I am about a 32d-ish, if that helps for size comparison.  I did see someone layer the spiderback top with the pole fit monokini once, and it did look really cool. so maybe as a layering piece it wouldn't be so bad. I just dont like how tight it is with straps and how little support there is.

    Has anyone tried the princess pole fit top? I love the front, not sure about the back… might be ok if all in black.

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 20, 2013 at 1:54 pm in reply to: Xpole spider top anyone ??

    I bought the spider and bondage tops a while ago. I like the bondage top better by a long shot. Spider back runs really small. The style of the back, while visually pretty, just pulls the entire bra up and provides no real support bc there is no band to anchor the bra. I kind of wish I hadn’t spent the money on it because I never wear it. I think I’ve worn it once.

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 14, 2013 at 3:32 pm in reply to: Aerial frustration – I need to vent

    Its really true. Being high off the ground has a certain amount of scare factor whether upside down or right side up. Talking someone out of that calmly and clearly is the only way, yet a lot of people are not calm or focused enough to be able to listen. This is pretty much the best indicator there is that you are not ready for something.

    I know that when I teach, everything is initially learned close to the ground. AND everything is taught forwards and backwards. No student that I have taught is allowed to go for a drop until they have mastered the setup and reversing the set up to get back out safely. I find that this helps people a lot with mechanics. Because anyone can do something if they are told what to do, but actually learning why/how drops and moves work is more difficult. Also helps people with remembering their moves.

    Bottom line for me, grip strength evens the playing field when people start silks. Even when they have prior pole experience.  Remember learning pole and the baby steps involved with learning to invert correctly? It's the same thing. You have to train grip strength. Its not fun and it takes a while. But it's necessary in order to be safe. Gotta crawl before you walk.

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 14, 2013 at 2:54 pm in reply to: Aerial frustration – I need to vent

    Starting any aerial definitely changes the hands. Grip requires a lot of those little interstitial muscles of the hand to work in ways that we never ask them to otherwise. Do you use rosin? That might help. I have a hard time with grip on silks. I actually like corde lisse and trapeze a lot better because I can grip better on those apparatus.  I think it's going to be different for everyone. I do know that sweaty handed people tend to have an easier time gripping the silk, because the sweat makes the fabric sticky.  I have dry hands. What I do is put corn huskers lotion on when I am warming up, and 20 min later or so, I add rosin before actually getting on the apparatus. It really helps for me.

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 14, 2013 at 2:34 pm in reply to: Aerial frustration – I need to vent

    I know when I teach intro/basic silks we don't teach wrist locks/hitches. Any repetitive inversions are done from the ground, in the conditioning section of class. Often in the intro classes, all straddle ups conditioning is usually done in a knot, until a student has proved they can move on. Double wrist wraps are totally fine to me because the hands must remain active and grip cannot be forgotten. But a wrist hitch sometimes lets people do get ahead of themselves, so we tend to save those for more upper levels. If your grip strength isn't good enough, then there are a lot of things a person shouldnt be doing up in the air even if their body is capable of it.  There's nothing that makes a person freak out more than getting up the silk and realizing their grip isn't good enough. When a person freaks out up in the air, they stop listening, their energy efficiency is totally shot, their brain shuts off, they can hyperventilate, and accidents happen.  I have watched students do this, and while I remain calm on the outside for them, the inside is a-jumpin'.  Falling from 6 feet inverted, even on to a mat could sustain injury. Silks is a difficult apparatus. Many places will not even teach it as a first apparatus, requiring people to work on trapeze, etc to build up hand strength and grip. 

    Also, Rebekah Leach is awesome. Learning from books? Not awesome. I linked a video where she herself tells you why. This blew my mind. It's so dangerous. I cannot say enough times… circus aerial is not therapeutic, it provides fitness but its so much more than that. It is dangerous and can require things of the body that are not healthy or good for a person. Do not teach yourself until you have enough experience to do so. With silks it can take people years to acquire that proficiency. Aerial manuals should be used for reference. Not learning. 

    http://youtu.be/Be9qdu4FNvo

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 6, 2013 at 1:26 pm in reply to: Pleaser 7″ sz 7 black rhinestone heels almost new

    Sparrow, I thought the exact same thing! hahaha 

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 5, 2013 at 2:46 pm in reply to: anybody been through a career change?

    I love hearing these perspectives… seeing as how I spend a lot of time drowning in my own.  I had an artistic outlet through teaching. training, and performing while I was still living in Hawaii full-time. But since I haven't been there, I have been really not liking my job as much without that creative element in my life though I had also been having issues prior to the move. I do environmental consulting work through telecommuting so everyday I sit at a desk, knowing I am messimg my body up by just sitting and not doing anything. I would love to have a more physical fitness-y job and still be able to dance/perform/teach on the side. I know that whole creative pursuit will never pay my bills, but I do really think that if I could make physical therapy school a reality, I would be in 7th heaven. The function of the human body fascinates me, and even more so, returning functionality to an injured body. For a multitude of reasons, pursuing this right now feels like trying to swi up a waterfall, but my sanity will thank me for just trying to stay positive, I guess.

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 4, 2013 at 4:07 pm in reply to: anybody been through a career change?

    I feel like I could have written this post (with the exception of the undeserving, lying employers, my current employers are great. I just dislike my work). Definitely following because I, too, would love to hear other people's advice!

  • aliceBheartless

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    February 4, 2013 at 3:54 pm in reply to: want a new pole

    There are many many threads on this. Check through the forums to see what advice people have been giving on Platinum Stages poles (PS), X-poles (sport and Xpert models), and Lil Mynx (LM). For all of these brands there are opinions as to metal type, finish, diameter, spin/static, etc. If a permanently mounted pole is an option, Pole Danzer is also a good choice. There are also some really nice options for poles out of Australia, however, if you don't live there, shipping can be cost-prohibitive. Hope this helps.

     

  • aliceBheartless

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    January 31, 2013 at 8:52 pm in reply to: Lil Mynx?

    I think that PS has the best spin function of those three. By far, in fact. And I am picky about my spin, because its pretty much the only way I use my poles.

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