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  • RoseMay

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    October 21, 2012 at 7:42 am in reply to: How much muscle is too much muscle?

    Okay now that we've brought out the big guns (lol) and started talking about the people that made looking muscular their job …

    The difference between figure/bb competitors and pole dancers is that the first group trains and eats for the look while the second group trains and eats for the performance (e.g. getting stronger, getting more flexible, being able to train for a few hours to polish the skills and work on choreos, teaching classes for several hours, …).

    Assuming that you don't take drugs, if you eat and train only for the look you will never achieve your maximum performance. It's mostly because the body doesn't have enough energy to support heavy training … also the cuts prior to competitions are mentally draining. So they are usually strong, but they could be stronger and train harder if they didn't have that lifestyle.

    And on the other side, if you eat and train for best performance you usally won't look like those, that eat and train for the look. Of course genetics play a big part here. But it's no coincidence that the strongest people usually don't look like bodybuilders (e.g. olympic lifters, power lifters, strongmen, gymnasts, … if we compare it with pole dance gymnastics is probably closests to what we do)

  • RoseMay

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    October 20, 2012 at 6:13 pm in reply to: Why can’t I invert?!?! 🙁

    Of course, the girls here are very helpful when someone uploads a video and has a problem with a certain move. Just write in the titel and description that you need advice and I'm sure someone will have something helpful to say 🙂

    You can upload videos when you click on "Videos" at the top of the page, next to your member name, and then go to "Upload a video" in the right upper corner of the page.

  • RoseMay

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    October 20, 2012 at 5:57 pm in reply to: How much muscle is too much muscle?

    Well, for me my perception of the female body changed the more I got into strength training and later pole dancing. A few years ago I always thought skinny top models had the most beautiful bodies. Then once I started working out I looked at pictures of fit women and sometimes I liked what I saw and sometimes I thought: "Ugh way too much!"

    But over the years that changed and more and more muscles became "normal". Especially in pole dance you see lots of girls with strong arms and backs  https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_heart1.gif and the more you look at it the more it becomes normal. When I see a formerly thought of "pretty" woman I'm always thinking: "Wow, look at those tiny arms and bony shoulders! How can she survive like that?" I often pinch my female friends that don't work out in their arms and say something like: "Oh look at that, it's so cute!" https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

    I especially love muscular forearms. They make women (and men) look so strong and grown up.  I've actually never seen a pole dancer who had too much muscle (female or male). It's in the nature of the sport: the more mass the body has the harder the tricks become. Also there are some strong pole girls out there who don't look muscular at all!

    (On a side note: The way your muscles look depends mostly on the body fat percentage you have. If your muscles are covered with fat they will look more bulky than the same muscle with less fat on top of it. Also, just because you're getting stronger doesn't mean you're actually gaining muscle mass. That depends mostly on what you're eating.)

    I personally don't build muscle easily so I'm very proud if I see a photo or video of me and the shadow makes it look as if there are visible muscles https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif (Although I'm often told by other people that they think I have too much muscles … well, I only think that's very rude, it's not like I ASKED for their opinion about my body. I mean I don't go around telling people that I think they're too fat/skinny/muscular/bony/whatever … I don't just assume that they care for my opinion about the way they look. In the end every person should feel good in their own body, no matter how it looks like and what other people think https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_flower.gif)

  • RoseMay

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    October 20, 2012 at 7:23 am in reply to: Shoulder Mount of Handspring?

    Haha, when reading the title I thought this thread is about a cool new combo https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

    I think for most people for the handspring there are lots of moves you need to be comfortable with before working on it, because you need to know how to hold yourself up there once you can handspring up. Whereas for the shoulder mount you just work on the conditioning exercises and then one day you are strong enough to do it (if you know how to do the inverted crucifix).

  • RoseMay

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    October 13, 2012 at 6:53 am in reply to: I think I pulled my hamstring

    If the pain doesn't get better within one week you should go see a doctor. Also, if there is any swelling or bruising in the injured body part you should go see a doctor.

    That being said, be careful with the foam roller. Light massages are good but do not push into the tissue hard as this will interrupt the healing process.

    Also, do not stretch the muscle. Try to move it only through a painless range of motion. Once the muscle feels better you can start to slowly increase the range of motion.

    Heat is also good. Hope you feel better soon! 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    October 13, 2012 at 6:12 am in reply to: flag with breast implansts

    Are you sure your positioning is right? I get my flag bruises over my boobs (between my armpits) not ON them, because that's were I place the pole. At least this is how Veena teaches it in her lesson.

    Not sure about the flag invert though, haven't been able to do that one yet ..

  • RoseMay

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    October 11, 2012 at 8:07 am in reply to: Have you ever dreamed about poling?

    Often :-p One time I dreamt of a "new" combo and wasn't sure whether it was even possible to do outside of a dream … almost fell once trying to do and then just stopped trying. A few months later I saw Jenyne do it in a performance – so, obviously it is possible https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

  • RoseMay

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    September 25, 2012 at 3:46 pm in reply to: What does your MOTHER think about poledancing?

    My mum is usually the first one who sees a video of a new trick, enough said? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_heart1.gif

  • RoseMay

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    September 17, 2012 at 4:47 pm in reply to: Splits – is it even possible?

    Of course it's possible to get the splits even if you aren't naturally flexible! I started off about 15 inches off the floor. It took me about 9 months until I was on the ground. (actually only 6 months of consistent work, took a break in between)

    I uploaded some pics to prove it in my album "splits". Maybe it helps to motivate someone 🙂

    Though I do think that some people just can't get the middle splits due to the anatomy of their hips. But front splits shouldn't be a problem. Even if you aren't anatomically able to do a middle split you can still improve the straddle flexibility which will help a lot for dancing and tricks 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    September 17, 2012 at 2:27 pm in reply to: How do you call these moves in English?

    I believe the second one is called a hangman. The first one I've never seen before, looks pretty cool though 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    September 14, 2012 at 4:35 pm in reply to: Exiting elbowstand…gracefully

    I like to just straddle out of elbowstands (the reverse motion of the elbowstand press). If you can slide your feet you can slide them out so that you end up lying on the ground on your stomach.

    Or you can do that lunchbox pose that looks so nice with good back flexibility. Then you can slide your legs down (and the arms a bit away from the pole, unless you are really flexible^^) until you end up lying on the ground on your back.

  • RoseMay

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    September 14, 2012 at 8:10 am in reply to: Building core strength post partum

    Hi there,

    no baby here, I just thought you might find this video series with exercises for pole dance after pregnancy here helpful:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJZezT4T_MI&list=UU661peV4XddIqoFZx3IUtuQ&index=10&feature=plcp

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cpDRUYiZP9o&list=UU661peV4XddIqoFZx3IUtuQ&index=9&feature=plcp

    There are 5 more videos to this series, I don't want to spam this thread with the links – you should be able to find them easily on YouTube.

    Good luck! 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    September 8, 2012 at 5:57 pm in reply to: What’s your pole size & why?

    Oh, you're right, sensual, thanks! Though the poles from platinum stages that are height adjustable are only available in 45 and 50 mm (I think). But it's okay, I can wait. I already bought one new pole this year https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

  • RoseMay

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    September 8, 2012 at 4:38 pm in reply to: What’s your pole size & why?

    I started with a 50 mm and now use a 45 mm pole. I'm kinda tall (5'9), and when I bought my first pole I read everywhere that tall girls need bigger poles. Well, my body is tall, but it turns out my hands are really small! My fingers don't even go around a 45 mm pole.

    I often had forearm pain from split grip work on my 50 mm – luckily that's gone with the 45 mm. I would love to try a 40 or 38 mm pole – the hand grip must be incredible! But I'm worried that I'd have trouble with everything else then, the legs and stuff … Also they aren't available in TG or brass yet, as far as I know.

  • RoseMay

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    September 5, 2012 at 8:09 am in reply to: Question About Week 4

    I believe in Veenas lesson "Getting Started Spins" she explains how to figure out whether you are ready for spins or not 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    September 2, 2012 at 7:28 am in reply to: How to safely build muscle

    Before looking into protein supplements make sure that the real food that you eat gives you as much quality nutrients as possible. If you're deficient in vitamins or minerals it will hinder your strength progress. Also you need a lot of protein from natural sources (meat, fish, eggs, milk products, …). Protein supplements are just that … supplements, not replacements! 🙂

    I like protein powder for the times when I can't get any real protein. So directly after exercicing I have a shake. And if I bake healthy snacks they often contain protein powder … just because meat would make an apple cinnamon bar taste weird https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

    JeHanne made an important point: Try to get some protein with every meal you have 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    September 2, 2012 at 7:25 am in reply to: Maintaining pole strength during time away

    While there are lots of exercises you can do … i think the single most important exercise for pole strength is the pull-up/chin-up! I would get a portable pull-up bar that you can put into a doorway and remove easily for travelling (they aren't that expensive). Then you can work on pull-ups and all the variations: chin-ups, commando pull-ups, negatives, assisted ones for reps, inverted rows, …

    Also if you have that bar you can work on ab and grip strength with hanging leg raises and variations, depending on how strong you are currently 🙂

    Oh, and not to forget, exercises without equipment: handstands, elbowstands, forearm stands …!

    Have fun! 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    August 29, 2012 at 6:40 am in reply to: Body shape causing difficulties

    I think I got kinda bigger boobs (Cup F in UK size) – and well, I can't say I'm having trouble inverting. Are you sure your positioning is correct? When I stand next to the pole and grip it for an invert my outside arm is above my boob. The elbow is just ON it, not to the outside. The hand of the outside arm is at chin height. This way I have no trouble keeping my shoulders back.

    My sports bra that I'm wearing for poling compresses the girls so that makes everything a bit easier. Maybe you can try a different bra as well?

    Also when it comes to CARs and CKRs I think it's normal that one of the variation is easier for one person than the other variation. Which one it is depends on your body type (and the pole size, the bigger the easier the move gets … I think). But this shouldn't bother you that much, because every move you can do from a CAR you can also do from a CKR 🙂

    Good luck! 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    August 24, 2012 at 7:59 am in reply to: I feel like I got punched in the stomach…

    From my experience there are people who get sore the next day and then there are people who get sore 2 days after exercizing. Not much you can do about it^^

    Maybe it's better for people who are sore 2 days later to workout two days in a row and then rest when you're sore? (If the soreness is that bad that you have to rest)

    I mean, better than working out one day and then resting 2 days. This way you'd only get around 2 workouts per week.

  • RoseMay

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    August 24, 2012 at 7:50 am in reply to: New and already discouraged.

    What's the problem with the squats? How do you sit down on a chair in everyday life? A squat isn't that different from sitting down ..

    If you have back problems you might want to start working on core stability additionally to the pole strength routine (front planks, side planks, bird dogs, … no crunches or stuff like that)

    Also why do you think you can't do the strength routine without flexibility? I can't think of any exercise for the upper body (which seems to be your biggest problem)  in Veenas routine that requires flexibility. Except of course you have poor thoracic spine mobility and can't put your arms over your head.

    Apart from that … just like the other ladies said, keep at it, it can only get better! 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    August 20, 2012 at 3:47 pm in reply to: Partner acrobatics

    Here, maybe this helps:

    http://www.fedec.eu/resources.1637.html

    In chapter 6: "hand to hand" I believe is what you're looking for. There are lots of moves and a small explanation for each one. No idea about the difficulty though 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    August 11, 2012 at 1:06 pm in reply to: Hanging with back side to pole

    Oh I thought you meant a CAR or CKR! If you were talking about a wrist sit then forget my advice and do what sensual said https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_flower.gif

  • RoseMay

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    August 11, 2012 at 8:53 am in reply to: Hanging with back side to pole

    Squeeze your glutes, this will put some meat between your bones and the pole 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    August 11, 2012 at 8:48 am in reply to: Is joint discomfort normal?

    First of all: good for you for building up strength in your body first! 🙂 A couple of things come to my mind about your problem ..

    The thing is, that the connective tissue takes longer than muscles to adapt to the increased stress you put on it through exercising. So these are often the "weak links". They get stronger through weight-bearing exercises though, so keep doing what you're doing in general 🙂 And shaking the hands or arms out is not a bad thing and doesn't mean you're in trouble.

    However, "joint discomfort" is not really normal and you might want to take some rest if your joints still feel funky after exercising. With my wrists I just go by feel. If during a workout I get wrist discomfort I do some mobility exercises and do some exercises that don't stress the wrist (e.g. you can do planks on your forearms instead of in a full push-up position). Usually after a few minutes I can use the wrists normally again. If not I stop putting stress on them for that day.

    Good recovery techniques during exercise sessions include massage, foam rolling, mobility exercises, or different creams/gels that help with injuries (they also help if you don't have an injury^^) for the forearms and wrists.

    On a side note, for taking stress off the wrists in the push-up position I focus on pressing with my fingers into the ground instead of resting all the weight on the wrists.

    If you work out in the morning your joints aren't as lubricated as they are later in the day, so you need more warm up than normal. For the wrists I like to do some specific warm-up exercises like these here:

    http://www.globalbodyweighttraining.com/wrist-mobility-exercises/

    Also, if you're preparing for pole dance, you need a lot of grip strength anyway, which will help with strengthening wrists and elbows as well. So it would be a good idea to work on grip strength as well 🙂

  • RoseMay

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    August 11, 2012 at 7:21 am in reply to: Moves that require balancing up side down

    I can't really give any advice about Ayshas or Straight Edges but I have a pretty solid free elbowstand (took me around 9 months of 3 practices per week to feel comfortable in it!) and a half solid handstand (always a work in progress). I hope some of the same concepts work for the pole balance moves.

    When it comes to balance training I've found several things are important:

    1. concentration

    If you just rush into a move don't be surprised if you fall right out of it. Take a few seconds to organise your thoughts before doing the move.

    2. body tension

    That hollow body position that was just mentioned: pull the belly button in so that your lower back elongates and squeeze the glutes. Of course the legs should be under tension as well and not flailing around. It's usually easier to balance in a straddle or split position than it is with legs straight.

    3. learn how to counterbalance

    In the elbowstand when you feel like you're falling in the direction of your face then push the elbows into the ground to counterbalance. When you feel like you're falling backwards then push the hands into the ground to counterbalance.

    When you're holding an elbowstand with your back against the pole and just take your legs off the pole you're usually already out of balance and will fall down. I find it's best if I keep my body straight and only use my hands to push into the ground to lightly shift my balance away from the pole so that I'm standing free.

    For a handstand it's exactly the same, except that you're using just your hands to counterbalance. The fingers push if you're about to fall backwards and the wrists push if you're about to fall forwards.

    Also, if your shoulders and/or upper back lack flexibility it will be harder to hold any balanced inverted position.

    Practice as often as you can, it really does require a lot of practice if it doesn't come naturally to you! 🙂 Good luck!

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