[Katfan]

@PilatesPoleKat: How tall are you please? And would you say you have average hands? I am 5'8" and have long fingers. When I grip a 50mm object,  there is roughly a half inch gap between in thumb and index fingers. I have only been poling for a month, but want to buy one soon.

Thanks

[Katfan]

Pankake said it perfectly. I am no one to judge either, but this is a very slippery slope when the partner has so many rules about this. My husband is a police officer-very much used to being in control, but he knows he can't control me if he wants to keep me! Even if he paid for my lessons, it would still be okay for me to pole. A pole is on my Xmas list-he doesn't care as long as it makes me happy!