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I have 4 cats. None of them have tried to scratch my pole. They send to rub themselves against it when walking past so it’s only their fur and dirt which may transfer to the pole. I really can’t see a cat scratching a pole.

[Grizzly]

I own an upmarket lingerie and toy store (not in USA). I see brides every weekend. Everyone is different- you need to decide if you want to be more covered up or more revealing. To me there is a difference between underwear and sexy bedroom lingerie. Don't go for normal bras which you wear every day. If you are after the sexy bedroom lingerie, look at the sexy packaged ranges from Rene Rofe, Dream Girl or Leg Avenue. They have such a variety- teddies, babydolls bodystockings, merry widows. You will find most of the packaged lingerie is not padded nor underwired. I have discussions with ladies about this the whole time. Most ladies want the extra padding or underwire- totally agreed if you are wearing your bra for the day but bedroom wear is completely different. 'Natural' is better; your partner knows you and your body- turn the tables-would you want to be feeling him up and he has padding in the way??? Everytime I ask a guy about underwire and padding they pull a face.

http://www.renerofe.com/catalogs/August2013/RR-Sexy-Catalog-SS-2013-v2.pdf. 

If you are more outrageous, include a body stocking in your selection- guys go mad about them. If you do want to get something with suspenders/garter belt and thigh highs, try to get the detachable suspenders- detach the suspenders and attach to your thigh highs which are on the bed, then put the thigh highs on, your top bit on (merry widow, etc) and re-attach the suspenders. This way the suspenders are straight (trying to clip them and have them straight at the back is a mission)

Another outfit which most add to their honeymoon selection is a dress up one eg nurse or schoolgirl.

One other suggestion is to wrap your lingerie outfits in tissue paper and put them into a 'lucky packet'. Each morning have your man select your outfit for that night. He will spend the day wondering (and panting) for that night's outfit.
 

Hope this helps.https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif