My mom was completely cool about it. At one point she was going to even take a class but now she said her body won’t be able to handel it.lol she only 43. I even told my dad and he took it better then I expected. Even helped me carry my pole upstairs. The only thing he said was ” I hope you just don’t go swinging every time you see a pole” lmao I love my daddy to funny. Glad he knows now.