So far I have not, being a married male…
1 I would love to do both, but feel tricks would be more appropriate…
2 I don’t think I would ask or tell, it would just be do….
3 No, acceptance would just be fine…
4. Doesn’t go well is probably more the norm, so just keep practicing
Love the slightly more erotic side, and clothing options, would love to be able to do more, possibly professionally (little chance at my age…)