Discussions

Someone is selling a used chrome X-pole in Ontario, Canada. They purchased it two years ago but haven’t been able to use it due to surgery and are looking for a local buyer, as the pole is currently disassembled but not completely.

Someone is trying to identify a pole their friend purchased around 2010. They are considering buying it at a low price but need to know the make and model as the original instructions are lost.

The author asked about options for using an X-Pole in a space with vaulted ceilings, as a friend was having trouble with low flat ceilings. They recalled previous discussions on the topic.

The author shared a funny story about their boyfriend falling asleep while they tried pole dancing for the first time and asked if others had similar experiences. They were curious about the often-unaware partners or pets appearing in the background of pole videos.

The author is trying to find a video demonstrating a pole trick involving threading a leg under the arm to achieve a sideways V sit. They remember learning it from someone a few years ago and are hoping others can help locate the video.

The author is looking for instructional pole DVDs as they don't have internet access at home and want to practice between weekly classes. They are particularly interested in resources for self-taught polers and want to focus on technique and tricks.

The author is planning a doubles routine with a coworker and is seeking music suggestions. They described their and their partner's usual styles, the size difference between them, and the need for a song long enough to fill a 20-minute set.

The author is experiencing shoulder pain in their bottom arm after practicing twisted grip ayshas and handsprings. They were surprised the pain was in their shoulder, not their wrist, and wondered if this was a common experience.

The author asked whether studios typically inform students about Studio Veena, and if anyone has switched from studio classes to learning at home. They were curious about the awareness of this resource within the pole community.

A member is struggling with the aesthetics of their side climb, despite being able to complete it. They are looking for tips on hand and body placement to make the climb look more graceful.

Someone was asking if a particular online retailer would be having a sale on Xpole Xpert poles for Thanksgiving or Black Friday. They were hoping to find a discount on a new 45mm chrome pole.

Someone is looking to buy a used pair of platform heels, size 9½, specifically for studio use on rough floors. They want something inexpensive that won't damage their nicer shoes.

A member is seeking advice on achieving a cross knee release, specifically struggling with the pain and difficulty leaning back. They need to pass a level 3 class requirement.

A new pole dancer asked about maintaining their recently purchased pole, specifically regarding cleaning, potential marks on the floor, and the need for grip aids. They were hoping for advice from experienced polers.

Someone is looking to buy a used X Stage Lite pole, ideally in the New York/New Jersey area, but is open to shipping. They are hoping to find a good deal on one.

Someone shared a playful 'fine' list based on potentially scandalous experiences. They asked others to calculate their total 'fine' based on what they've done.

Someone is selling a used pole dancing stage for $700 or best offer. They noted it's in good condition but could use new leg pads and is located in Milwaukee, with pickup preferred.

This person is looking for pole dance competitions in or near Portland, Oregon, and is finding it difficult to locate events that focus on skill rather than appearance. They are willing to travel to Washington state as well.

A new member introduced themself to the community, sharing their passion for pole and asking if 'Obsessive Poling Disorder' is a recognised thing. They've been poling for over a year and are currently working on split grip Aysha and Iguana.

The author announced their pole dance blog was nominated for a scholarship and asked for votes to help them win. They shared their goals of using pole dance to support veterans and increase mainstream recognition of the pole community.

Someone shared their detailed process for washing pole dance clothes, including detergent, soaking times, and drying methods, noting it helps prevent fading and stretching. They mentioned a conflict in advice regarding fabric softener.

Someone shared links to free sample lessons for butterfly and pole sit techniques. They asked people to share the links if they enjoyed the samples.

Someone is selling a used chrome, non-spinning X-pole (45mm) in the Raleigh/Durham area for $200. They are including a level and stud finder with the sale.

The author asked how long others have been pole dancing, sharing they started in February and had a break due to classes being cancelled. They were looking to connect with others about their pole journey.

Someone new to Michigan is looking to connect with dancers or clubs in the area. They have experience dancing in California and are hoping to freelance on weekends.