OKIE gang! I have both and have done both (Veena vs Valentino).. hehehe!
Okie, my suggestion: if you want to pole and stretch do Veena cause her routines are about 25min long, so you can also pole first to warm up :)
The Valentino videos are really good for days off pole as they are 1 hour long and include a yoga warm up for 5 min. Also, with the bro's you hold the stretch for 1 min each and by the end of the hour you are quite sore. Veena is a bit more gentle, doing each stretch a few times with foam roller in between, and holding for 30sec.
Both suggest you can use yoga blocks to help with balance and posture on some moves, but only Veena has the foam roller, which I love, but if you don't have a roller and can't afford one at the moment, I would be tempted to sway towards the Valentino vids.
Again, both great routines tailored to different lifestyles: Valentino = the dedicated, I"m taking time to stretch and put it into my schedule, and Veena = I'm dedicated, but need to cook dinner and do laundry before the kids get home, so I can probably fit in the 20min session while the chicken is baking and the clothes is in the dryer. ;) I'm thoroughly enjoying the combo of using both. I've just started though, so can't tell you much abotu the effects on flexibility.
(Veena I hope you don't find anything I say offensive, as I love the fact that your stretching videos are short and compact, but I also enjoy doing a longer stretching session on some days!)