Ok, first I want to clear up the confusion that there is a way to spot reduce fat. You can't choose where you will loose fat from first, and unfortunately the tummy and love handles is usually the last to go. ๐. So to loose body fat you need a healthy balanced diet, and yes...that includes whole grains (carbs) cutting out any food group is never a good idea. So the next thing is to move more, Pole more (of course) park farther away, take the stairs.....move more. So thats just the basic concept of fat loss
There are not a lot of pole moves that strengthen the triceps specifically. Caterpillar would be good, but you would need to do both sides, anything where you would be pushing yourself away from the pole with arms bent, then straighten again, would be using triceps.
Push ups and variations, shoulder push ups, and dips are all good for triceps and don't need any special equipment. If you have the online lessons I do different variations of the push ups and shoulder push ups. You could check those out. ๐ธ