Hey there!
I'm also around a similar level, and generally do all of my workout and dancing at home.
My current schedule is running three days a week, and pole three days a week- I do my best to make sure I have two rest days, because that's super important! I don't get stronger without rest days.
Running aside (it's my main leg workout, and all my cardio workout, but it's fairly straightforward), my pole workouts consist of warm up dancing, which is grounded at this point (I don't want to stress any of my muscles or joints before they're warm, so I stick to floorwork, general dancing, and very, very easy tricks). Then, I will transition to working on my chosen trick for that time- right now, I'm working on the Apprentice, or Thigh rest. I will do about five to ten on each side, holding for as long as possible, and trying to get my foot as high as possible. I take short breaks in between each couple of attempts, to have water, and consider what it is I'm doing right or wrong.
Then I do my strength training. Right now, I'm working a lot on my core, and trying to bring my upper body into it as well. So, I've found a lot of great workout videos around the internet (Veena has some great ones here on the website, too!), and if I don't feel like those, I'll just do my own routine, making sure to get all the muscles I can think of at the time!
Then I work on my flexibility, as I would love to increase that this year, and perhaps achieve my splits sometime in the next few years.
I do have dumbbell weights, but they aren't much. 5-7 lbs is all I'm using right now. They're mostly just for my arm workouts.
The pole itself can be a huge help in increasing strength, not just by learning tricks, but as an apparatus to facilitate certain movements. You can check out the Ab Challenge we have hanging around here- the exercises Veena came up with for it are actually put up on Youtube, so you can see them without a subscription.
Hopefully that helps!