Many of us struggle or have struggled with slippery pole, no matter what kind/finish. I started on a stainless steel lyl mynx and used it for two years. It was a struggle, however, since it was the only pole I had, it's what I learned a lot on. There was a lot of wiping, grip aides, etc. Like savy said, it is good to practice without grip aides, but I finally gave in and used some to feel like I was getting somewhere. Then the hunt was to find which grip aide worked for me, as again, everyone is different.
I finally was able to get an xpole titanium gold and went the other way with grippy pole. It is very different and my body got "tore up" at first, but I'm used to it now. I do lose spins practice because of the good grip, but for now, it's okay. Maybe later, I might look into chrome.
The decisons we polers have to make :) Even though it may not feel like it, you are building up strength and conditioning. I didn't think I was, but now I realize I did. Hang in there.