Someone is struggling with the split grip Ayesha, specifically keeping their hips square to the pole and feeling generally frustrated. They also mentioned they can't do the extended butterfly.
What the replies say: Several members suggested working on the extended butterfly first to build strength and balance. Others shared their own long journeys learning the move, suggesting trying it on the weak side or exploring elbow grip as an alternative. One member found success with the elbow grip after struggling with Ayesha.
AI-generated, may be imprecise · updated 9/9/2026