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EDIT: Issue resolved! 🥂 Everything's A-ok now! 😉 👍 I edited out the full story here because I didn't want this left public for longer than need be... thanks everyone for understanding!
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RoxyPink ·
that's a tough one Foxy! The only thing I could think is has your % body fat dropped a good bit lately?? I know that if you don't have enough, that your visits can stop...just a thought...but you don't look unhealthy at all...so I don't know. Let us know what the dr says...good luck girl!
I'm not saying you're pregnant (you might just be stressed), but urine pregnancy tests can be wrong, so when you go to the doctor even if they give you another urine and that comes back negative you might want to ask for a blood test to make sure. That is the only way to know 100%. With my daughter (my second baby) I was 2 weeks late and took 5 urine pregnancy tests...they all said negative. I even bought different brands! When I went in to see the doctor they gave me a urine test, and of course that came back negative too! Craziness! Well I demanded a blood test because I knew something wasn't right. I remember she gave me such a hard time about it, and so did the gal who drew my blood..."We don't usually do this". 🙄 Low and behold, they called me the next morning and told me I was pregnant! Needless to say I found a different doctor after that because she should have been more respectful about my asking for the blood test. And I'm glad I pushed for the it because if I hadn't she was gonna prescribe some birth control pills for me and that could have hurt my daughter. Yicks! Anyways...so let us know what happens and I hope your doctor's appointment goes well 🙂
Veena ·
I'm so sorry you stressing....sounds like you could be prego, but make sure that do a blood test. You had mentioned your diet was not very good, well that along with long hours and stress you could be anemic, make sure you tell them how physically demanding your day is and that your worried your diet is lacking. Pole dance takes a lot of energy so a good diet is a must. Let us know how it goes, I hope your Drs treat you better than mine just did. Sending you many cyber hugs..... 🌸
Foxy_Rei ·
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Ohhh... poor thing that's happened to me a couple times. My period is SO irregular. Except when I'm on the Nuvaring. LOVE the ring. I'f you've already had kids when you go into the doc's as soon as you're sure you aren't ask them about Mirena. It's a safe IUD, (not like the icky ones of the 70's) it's good for either 3 or 5 years then it's removed. you can also have it remove if you're planning on trying. Might be a good option for you. Good luck hon.
Foxy_Rei ·
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Dont be embarrassed! Do you remember my post about how I started bleeing everywhere after knockin boots?! Im also about to post my own health issue thread too (yes another one) so dont feel self conscious or whatever. Hopefully its just stress...although you said you were on Nuvaring and getting off birth control can affect your cycle. Maybe youre just stressed and arent getting a period this month? Thats happened to me before and it was before I was sexually active so I for sure wasn't pregnant. Which also means I guess I'm not capable of any immaculate conceptions either, but anyway...I know how worrisome it can be to not know whats up with your body. Whens your appointment at the family planning place? Try not to stress about it too much even though thats much easier said than done!
If your insurance won't cover the IUD you can always go to a family planning clinic (Like Planned Parenthood) and get one there. They usually work on a sliding fee scale based on your income so it might save you some money.
Oh I also wanted to add this and jellycat's post reminded me...you can get on generic brands of the pill for cheap too, and your regular doctor/gyno can prescribe them. They have the same amounts of everything the brand name pills have. I'm on tri-sprintec and paying nine bucks a month, its great 😀
So my best friend didn't get her period for 4 months and started freaking out that she was pregnant (and we were in the UAE at the time, not a good place to be a single pregnant girl) and ended up going through all sorts of things to find out if she was or not (pregnancy tests, ultrasounds, etc). Turns out she was just super stressed, not eating great, and not sleeping much. She ended up finally getting her period back after about 6 months (all the stress from thinking she was pregnant made it stay away a lot longer) and was fine but based off what you said about your life it could be it. But best to go to the doctor to find out for sure because if you are pregnant every pregnancy is different (I can't say 1st hand but every woman and relative I've talked to tells me that) so it could be that or it could just be stress on your body.
i went 4 yrs without getting my period. the doc couldn´t find anything wrong with me and one day it just came back. it might have been stress but who knows. then i was super regular to the day for about 2 yrs and now i´m all over the place. it´s not always like clockwork. but take a blood test to ease your mind. and sweetie, maybe you should get back on some kind of birthcontrol if you really can´t risk bringing any more lovely foxies into the world just now.... big hugs! and i´m crossing my fingers for you too!!! 🌸 frida 🌸
Gsylass ·
Aww Foxy, I can guess how worried you are right now. I really hope you get an answer soon! 🌸
azzwoo ·
Hey Foxy! Big sympathies because the same thing happened to me a couple of months ago. I have been on the pill for a few years, and ended up having to have a course of antibiotics so didn't take the pill cos it wouldn't have worked anyway. I missed my period (despite having all the signs it was coming, moody, cramps etc), and was really freaking out thinking I could be preggers (although not as freaked out as my BF was!). Took a pregnancy test which was negative, and I ended up getting my period a month late, but was sooooo glad to see the damned thing! I'd also had some tummy problems and the doc thought it might have been to do with that, stress and my poor diet (I stopped eating because of the tummy prob). Try not to panic, it doesn't necessarily mean you're preggo and stress will only make it come later, its like one of lifes cruelties! Hope you get it soon! x
Foxy_Rei ·
Thank you for the encouragement everyone! 🥂
Gsylass ·
Oh Foxy I'm so relieved for you! Yeah it's literally a pain, but far better 5 days discomfort/inconvenience than 18 years or so eh?! 😉
we have a monthly celebration in our house when I announce that we're not pregnant. 4 kitties and a lizard is enough!!
