pole party

having a pole jam w a member or few in a couple weeks. was just looking for some ideas. just maybe how to make it fun and make sure everyone feels comfortable. i was thinking of using a red or black light and having each girl pick 1 slow and 1 fast song to dance to. of course will serve light finger food and drinks, but other than this can't think of much. maybe ask the girls to bring a costume or prop (necktie, hat ect)..maybe we could pick stage names too. 🌈