Pole legalities with kids

Pierced Kitteh · 2010-03-14T02:19:53+00:00

Hi all... i recently put up an xpole in my unused dining room (only place it would fit because of height issues). i have 3 boys, 2 of them being teenagers and 1 pre-teen. The boys know that it was only used for excercising/ballet NOT for stripping. They had no issues with it being in the house, it was like it wasn't even there. i have a very open relationship with my boys and we are very close in as they can trust me with anything...heck, they are even my facebook friends lol! Well last week my sis, who works for dept of children and families found out that i had a pole in the house and flipped out. She told me i was NOT allowed to have a pole in the house and that if i didn't take it down she would remove my 3 boys from my house. i would like to know if the state can do this? i mean it is my house and having a pole for excercise is not illegal right? i didn't use the pole in front of them and i certainly didn't strip on the pole. Does anyone here know the legalities, if any, on having a pole in the house with children? To make her get off my case i took my pole down but i am pissed off because she is stereotyping the pole as to being sleazy and when i try to talk to her about how it is a sport and such she just screams and talks over me like i am wrong and she is right. i am a 40 something yr old, single/divorced working mom and law abiding citizen who feels as though i was bullied into taking down my pole and would love to look into the legalities further. If anyone knows any lawyers who can look through law books on this i would really be interested. Thanks so much and hope to get replies on this.

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