I like Veena's suggestion - making a schedule of focused, planned pole workouts. So you can still get on the pole in some way every day or nearly every day, but you're not overdoing it.
My pole workout categories:
STRENGTH: More like a workout than a practice, using Veena's moves and others I've learned in pole classes, and maybe some non-pole strength training too like pushups and weights.
FLEXIBILITY: Mostly just a stretching thing, but also challenging myself to the tricks I struggle with due to flexibility (my nemesis right now is Twisted Ballerina).
DANCE: Freestyle, routine planning/daydreaming, meditative, theatrical
PRACTICE: A dedicated session to work on my current moves and learn new ones, maybe with some dance thrown in for warmup & fun.
CHALLENGE: A session devoted to completing one of the SV challenges! Or a challenge I issue myself. Like have a dance session where my sole focus is pointed toes. Or a session in heels. Etc.
JAMS: By webcam or in person! Usually less strenuous of a workout because of the social time, but a great way to use pole to unwind.
I aim for at LEAST 20 minutes for each and generally have no problem meeting that. And I also throw in other stuff, like yoga, walking/hiking and aerobics DVDs. So I'm not actually poling every day... but I could.
What I like about this setup is that it helps me get over the discouragement hump you feel when you're not poling as often as you'd like to be. Out of all those options, the dance and practice sessions generally are the most time-consuming, so I can pick and choose to do those on the days when I know I have time, and when time is crunched, do a shorter flexibility or freestyle practice just to get SOMETHING in.
Another thing is, I hate poling when I'm on my period, I feel bloaty, bitchy and unsexy and my skin is more sensitive to the pain. I got in a habit of just entirely skipping any kind of workout that week of the month, but that can really break momentum. With a "choose your own adventure" sort of plan, I can pick one of the options above that doesn't have me on the pole a whole lot (so less skin burn/pinch), doesn't have me upside down (never fun when bloated) and isn't overly strenuous when I'm fatigued and crabby. And I also don't put pressure on myself to film these sessions because frankly I just hate looking at my bloat on film later. Plus my flow is so heavy now that I usually wear a pad to catch any leaks, and pads + pole shorts = eek/potential Ick! (Sorry if that's TMI, just a reality of life!)