please help

misslizzy217 started this discussion · 12/31/2009

Ok so my boyfriendsd birthday is next week and i want to do a little pole dance for him because we have spent all our money on our 2 kids for xmas and cant afford to buy presents.! his birthday is next week ( 1/5) so what i was wondering is if anyone can make a little video with a nice sexy little pole routine because I NEED HELP LOL! it can be basic, i can do quite a few spins, i can invert but i get scared so nothing to hard with inverts, i can very comfortably do a ckr. i will probably be doing it to " birthday sex" by jeremiah. if noone does it i understand but if anyone can that would be AWESOME because you girls are quite frankly the sh*t! anything is appreciated happy new year . ps i use spinny mode

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velvetvixen · 1/1/2010
I wish there was an easy routine with easy moves that just sizzle but I haven't seen any that EVERYONE could do. We all have diff flexibility for one. 😀 This link tells you how to make your own routine with what you know already: http://poleskivvies.com/2009/05/how-to-make-a-pole-dance-routine/ This link is about improv: http://poleskivvies.com/2009/05/how-to-improv-a-pole-dance/ I'm sure he would love it and wouldn't notice if you made a mistake if you keep going. My pole instructor said her boyfriend and lots of men don't care so much for tricks (like we do) and you could literally shake your hips most of the time and they will love it. I think she is right. The fact that your allowing him to see you dance will please him. It might help to dance for yourself and "included him" vs. dancing for him. Plus its a tease, he'll wonder when your coming back and it will allow him to look at you when your not looking, which he will like to see a girl who enjoys herself! Pick a song you really like. I tend to be giggly when I'm nervous so I made up "Veronica" who already knows she's hot and "acted" like her in a way. I turn her on and off now. She just a diff part of me. Seemed to help me. Plus if he didn't like it he must not have a pulse! I say go for it! You could make a routine to do, improv, or a mix of the two. Its your show , you can do whatever you want and your in control. 🙂 Lots of practice is good so the moves feel comfortable to you. Good luck and let us know how it goes! Hope this helps. 😀