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I agree with the psychological profile suggested earlier. I talk to these type of losers on the crisis line all the time. He doesn't know nothing about you or pole dancing or women. You aren't old, hell you won't even hit your prime until you're approaching 40 like me! And your body is f@#$ing amazing, for someone with 4 kids or no kids. (I hate when people tell me I look good for someone with 3 kids). Ok Veena, You HAVE to share this a@@hole's identitiy so we can all gang up and give him an internet a@@ whooping!! Of course we'll do it in a very ladylike fashion! 🌸
awww Veena.. it made me so sad to hear some pathetic, no-life/no-wife, no taste or tact, spineless, heartless, poor exuse for a man made you cry 🙁 am also sad to hear you have to stuggle w your family that way its really too bad that people make up there minds about something wo really knowing any of the facts on the matter and refuse to hear or believe anything that is diffrent from their pre-conceived notions i thought my mom esp was really going to lay into me about the pole thing as i said on a previous post it was tense at first but seeing how passionite and dedicated to this i am has turned her into my biggest supporter i dont see how anyone could look at what you are doing as wrong you took a passion and a talent and turned it onto a profitable buisness where you can be home w your kids why should your kids feel anything negative about what your doing? your celebrating your body/life/health/womanhood when i first started and even now some people gave me grief but as i said i am not doing this for anyones approval and dont care wether someone (family/friend /or stranger) doesnt like it owell i enjoy sharing my dancing w others, but its something i do for myself as i said before you could be the most beautiful/talented/YOUNG (please dont get me started on the age thing what does he want is he some perv who gets off on lookin at girls young enough to be his daughter? just gonna let this go before i go off) rich/ect person but there are always going to be those people who are so empty and lonely and feel so insecure they almost cant help themselves when it comes to hatin on people they are secretly envious of HI HATERS!!!! for me the more someone tries to tell me not to do something, or says i'm never going to get anywhere w something ect it just adds fuel to my already blazing fire i have told people "keep hatin on me ..keep doubting me .. put me down .. it just makes me want it that much more and keeps me going when i want to quit i'll hear your pathetic, pitiful little words and it gives me the extra incentive to keep at it so thanks.. you wasting your time and energy putting me down serves me well have a nice day.." i could just write a novel that will make all my previous novel posts look like 1 liners so am going to just wrap it up by saying i am sorry that you had to go through that but we're all here for you and we all love you **HUGS**
Veena ·
Twista, Caramel, Trena, Iily, Azriel, Buterflli, gsylass, Fleur, Bugged82, benicebehappy,mrstrone, untamedshrew, I'm sorry if I forgot someone but... Thank you all so much for your kind words...I was really upset when i read what he said....I felt like he was not only judging me put all women!! That upset me the most, to read that someone could feel that way towards women. 😈 But then as I said before it just snowballed into wanting to share this with someone but knowing I can't really talk too much about this part of my life with my family. Then THAT made me sad!!! 🙄 Oh boy...I'm so glad you didn't mind me blabbing about my troubles. I really to feel many of you are closer to me than me family. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU 🥂 I did go take my medicine...didn't really "practice just did some pole for the soul. 😀
awww 🙂 so sweet veena i read your pole stories in earlier post btw girls, awesome hey, speaking of forum family--i know i just got here, but its a really wonderful open supportive community, really the best i've seen. because poling is so awesome too 🙂 anyway--i almost married a musician, who runs a recording studio (i helped him get it, now he's ex psycho stalker) but we were planning on touring/travelling, and i wanted to build my own gypsy caravan!!! they are sooooo beautiful 🙂 (they sell a kit at http://amvardo.com/) and i was upset, cuz how would i get my elliptical in there??!??! aha now...i could take my pole with me... OR, i was thinking...i could visit you guys if/when i hit the road!!! (its actually coming up per my numerology in a year or so!) gypsy life 😉 then i could sing and do astrology/numerology and flower essences...and ha ha, maybe pole 🙂 http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c72/LisaSays/vardo2-1.jpg http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c72/LisaSays/vardos.jpg
no one wants to see a video of him treating his girlfriend well because his girlfriend is his right hand with some eyes and lipstick painted on. ok ew i almost threw up my dinner but its probably true! i told veena her and i are going to bake some special cupcakes with cement frosting and throw them at his head. then i bet even his right hand would dump him..i dont think even hands like guys with caved in heads!
Can you put some heavy weights into those cupcakes before you throw them at his head!! XD But not all, you dont want to waste too many good cupcakes an some spineless, inbred dick like him XD
I don't usually get negative comments on my videos either...but after the suit and tie video went "viral" on Attack of the Show, I did get a few. Most were of the homophobic variety. What fascinated me most was that EVERY one of these idiots had ABSOLUTELY NOTHING on their own channel besides other people's videos. One man who made the nastiest comments had KIDDIE CARTOONS on his playlist that he had lifted from Nickelodeon! To me, the homophobic comments were so obviously an expression of the writer's own personal anxiety that it was simply pathetic. I have a quite a few lesbian and gay friends/neighbors--I'm quite certain none of them would find MY videos the least bit sexually arousing, LOL! It seems to me that there were quite a few guys who watched the video, felt insecure about their own identity, and wrote a nasty comment just to prove to themselves they were still straight! That's pretty sad! I can tell you with absolute certainty that when a guy talks this way about a woman, it is jealousy talking. I think to a certain extent, all of us men have fairly fragile egos (either that--or the opposite problem--being a sociopath, LOL!) and the hardest "barrier" to get over is the maturity to put yourself out there and take the risk of rejection. Some guys just never get past this and they just spend their lives eternally pissed off at women. I think some men are also afraid of the things they are attracted to--especially any kind of display with sexual overtones. For younger guys, especially, they have a difficult time separating the strong feelings and drives associated with sexuality from some prior association of these feelings with shame or embarassment. Or maybe they are afraid they can't control themselves. So the easiest way to distance themselves from "temptation" is just to trash the women who do these things that they are fearful of. One last thing. I know this whole "power" terminology in feminism gets overused sometimes--but honestly, I think there is DEFINITELY some truth in the idea that sexuality (FEMALE sexuality) is a force, a power to be reckoned with....and a certain kind of guy just can't handle it. I mean, you see this in cinema all the time--especially in the horror genre. Don't you just know that the hottest, blondest, thinnest high school cheerleader is always going to get killed off first--in the most gruesome manner possible... ? I think art and culture are just reflecting that whole fear of women thing--just in a more "refined" way.... Joel
holy mackerel, joel, why am i so surprised at your wildly intelligent and articulate post???? i want to add my ideas from astrology and numerology/yin-yang energy: scorpio, (me 🙂 a feminine sign associated with power, is co-ruled by Mars, the 'male' planet of aggression, sex and war and ruled by Pluto, the god of the underworld: sex, death and regeneration so to me, when i see clips of hacker films (i hate horror) with the nearly-required 'hot chick', it really makes sense to me. sex and death are bound through pluto and scorpio... also, the male is the 'positive', active, go-after energy, while female is the 'negative'--not actively seeking as much, and physically not as meant for sexual aggression (ie raping a guy 😉--so their general energy is attractive, ie attracting things to them, like a flower... Here 'negative' and 'positive' are not the traditional, like 'negative thoughts', but negative like the flower rooted to the spot, but radiating attracting scent and beauty, while the bee is the 'positive'--active and seeking and acting upon that which it desires... and sometimes it seems to me this 'negative', attractive, female energy is even more powerful than the mars/male energy in real male-female relations...because, thinking Darwinian--the male would never actively pursue a female unless her draw was strong enough... numerology has very similar energies for the numbers 1 (male): initiating, leader, action; and 2 (female): healing, sensitive, mediating 🙂 lis
