Interesting that last post brings up safety, which reminds me that besides payment, another thing to factor into negotiations for such a gig is the accomodations for a "bodyguard" -- a little tip that most who have spent time in the exotic dance world know. Really any special event (say, outside of your regular "safe haven" where you dance, like a club or studio, etc) for which you get hired, large or small venue/audience, it's a given that u do NOT go unaccompanied. That "bodyguard" can look like whatever makes most sense to you: someone you work/dance with (recommended of the opp sex), your sig other/BFF, a hired pro, etc... Esp handy to have a built-in set of helping hands to set-up/tear-down ur stage, help w/costume/props, collect tips, serve as a "spotter" if need be, & general "get ur back" sort of stuff like dealing w/grabby-hands, keeping people off your pole (say, whn ur not on it & no 1 else should be either -- hello, liability!) or heaven-forbid a real big emergency...