Hi!
I stopped to use regular (hair-) cosmetics when my hair started breaking andere looking all messed up. Fortunatly, in Germany, natural cosmetic id a really big thing and you can buy it almost everywhere. But sometimes, I like mixing my own conditioner. Here's my recipe:
1 teaspoon it honey, stirred into
3 teaspoons of warm oil (almond, avocado, argan, coconut, sheabutter, ... You can mix them)
1 teaspoon of hydrogenated keratine
1 teaspoon of concentrated aloe vera
1 teaspoon of panthenol
Plus, if you like, add a little bit of your favorite conditioner, but one without silicones!
You should get the ingrediants at any pharmacy.
The conditioner works better with heat, that will Open the hair structure and make it get deeper into it.
For extra shine, use, after rinsing, a so called "sour rinse":
1 part of a mild vinegar (Apple for example)
9 parts of cold (!!!) water
This will close the hair structure and will give really nice shine!