Motivation buddy?

Hi everyone! I am fairly new here and also a fairly new poler...Only been at it for about a month or so! Just a quicky bit about me...I was teaching myself for the first few weeks and now I do two pole classes a week at my local studio but try to learn extra through Veena's videos as I am getting a little bored in my beginner's class! But basically, I am looking to lose a few kg and want to have a buddy that I can talk to and be motivated by (and also motivate!!) who understands that pretty much the only exercise I want to do is pole and pole strength moves...and not go to the gym!!!! I understand about eating healthy and all that but often fall off the band wagon but its these damn last 5kg that I want to lose that I keep losing motivation and basically yoyo up and down... Everyone else I try to pair up with with this tries to make me go to the gym and its like a) I don't really have the time to do that and pole b) I JUST WANT TO POLE!! haha so if you're possibly interested in my craziness... please reply!!