kittyface started this discussion ·
I thought I would ask here, since I've tried to search for this and it's pretty difficult to find much: are there any other lesbians here who pole? Do you know lesbians who pole, on or off of StudioVeena?
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Lol thats a funny question to ask. But the answer is yes
I know a ton and probably more bisexual than you would imagine. Ones who I know are out and proud are Michelle Mynx and Stacy Lynn. In all honesty, why does it matter?
I'm Bi. :) chem- I think she is asking because she is just interested in like-minded people to herself. kind of the way some polers want to know if other polers are cancer survivors. just a common thread with other people. I dont think she was asking in a negative way. it's true. you dont hear alot of women polers say they are lesbian or bisexual. you can start to wonder if you are the only one. especially in a studio setting. :)
Im cool with anyone dancing watch you label yourself idc cuz at the end of the day we come together to pole and be creative and awesome
Of course there are! Years ago I was in a class where everyone--instructor included--had some history of relationships with women.
Rhianael ·
Hai *waves* It's not something I bring up in pole classes because I don't want to make anyone feel weird :p But it's all over my fb so anyone who's actually vaguely my friend from a class knows, I'm pretty sure lol. It sure does feel lonely though!
I'm bi, although these days I'm more like ~forever alone~ hahaha (seriously though, it's been 7 years since I've had any activity in the "grown up" parts of my life).
Bisexual here and out and proud. The first times in new groups I can however feel a bit insecure, because of an irrational thought that all the girls will think I only joined to see women skimpily dressed. That's says more about me than the group. Although, I have heard straight women ask: "So, does that mean you are into me too?" *sighes to herself*
millionme, I worry about that too. and even my close friends who are female, they are gorgeous but I've never thought of them in that way and dont want them to think I do. I'm only attracted to people who are also attracted to me, except for Joaquin Phoenix. He just doesnt know he's attracted to me! hahahaha!
I'm not lesbian , but have friends neighbors and acquaintances who are. I live in hillcrest (part of San Diego . I just want to share that I've never once felt awkward or anything . It just doesn't really seem to matter and we respect each other .
Dori Eye ·
Hey! I'm queer & polyamorous here. It's nice to know there are other lesbians who pole. :) I don't know for sure, but the majority of the women at my studio are straight and attached. I sometimes wonder -- am I the only gay one here??
No, your not the only one. ;)
haha its funny i wouldn't say i'm bi but i think my boyfriend would beg to differ! We often eye up girls together haa, and point out particular hotties to each another =P and when we are on a night out he finds girls who are willing to let me bite their asses (god we sound like perverts...) He is convinced that's one of my main motivations for going to pole - to check out all the tits n ass ;) i don't think i would ever want to do anything with a girl but dayyumm do i like the view! =) i am always ogling girls, i love the lads mags, i would much rather stare at a group of female bodies than male, and in porn i always watch the girls more than the guys... yet i dont think i would be interested if a girl hit on me for real.... Is there a word for girls like me...?! ...Shallow and pervy?! ;)
Polekat you are funny. And honest! That's rad! I think for me it has seemed odd as well that I enjoy the view of a woman's body more than a man's. I however have never based love on looks and I've never had a "type". I feel like appreciating a woman body is from a place of honor and respect, I have the same for men but in more of a "look at that foundation, Not, "wow look at that shape" ;) But woman are magical. Period. We are the heart of the world:) just thought you comment was funny and relatable. I think more woman find woman attractive in a way That makes them question themselves. That's why it doesn't get spoke about perhaps? We should embrace the fact that we love who we are and what we are made of !! Men are a whole another creature subject ! I've been married for almost 8 year's and we both agree that the sexual energy between humans never dies, even after settling down, when things cease to evolve they die essentially, in my eyes. It's what goes on In the mind that could be wrong ;) I think it's important to embrace the nature of What we are, whatever that may be . .. pretty cool to see this thread... Peace love and happiness to all that wander ;) wandering is what the journey is all about!
ahh i love you , you put it so much more eloquently! im just a sleaze haahaha ;) but i learned to embrace the freak in me a while ago and i have never been happier hehe. i have many friends who are gay and i would never presume to be a part of that world or belittle their lives and experiences, i guess I am just a voyeur of lovely things.... And a big pervy perv. What you said is so true, there is something really sensual about the lines of the female body, much more so than the male... Maybe it's the artists' eye in us ... =)
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Sorry I haven't gotten the chance to respond before now, thank you for all the replies! @chemgoddess - I'm definitely curious to find like-minded people in the pole community, as Phoenix Hunter explained. There's so much variety of ages, races and body types that I've seen in pole that I was kind of sad to not find much at all on lesbian pole dancers. Trying to search "lesbian pole dancer" on Google just gets you a bunch of porn sites =/ The other unfortunate thing that I saw was a fair amount of casual heteronormativity (things that assume heterosexuality) on various pole blogs and sites owned by straight female pole dancers across the web. I really don't think any of these women even realized they were doing it, but those things were still jarring and I wasn't able to get into their work in the same way after that, and it made me feel very alone. Thank you, I wasn't aware of those women before! I'll definitely look them up :) @Rhianael, millonme - I've wondered about that too, making people feel weird or like I must be trying to hit on them because I'm a lesbian. In the end, because I want to be open about my life (and also just want any opportunity to bring up my wonderful wife :) ), I am still open about my orientation, and the studio I go to has been good and accepting. At the end of the day, I figure, if a woman *assumes* you're hitting on her just because you're attracted to women, that says more about her than you =P @polekat, Stefana of Light - I've known a number of women who have said that, they're attracted to men but appreciate the female form more. To be honest, I think I said that at one point too before I accepted the true extent of my feelings for women. It's really not something I can separate out, myself. My aesthetic appreciation for women, my sexual attraction, my romantic feelings, my general affinity for other women - it all kind of blends together, it's all part of the same thing for me. It's like... "Do I want to be with her or be her? Ah, screw it, it's both" =P The only feelings I've ever had for men are feelings of obligation and, when I was younger and didn't know what lesbianism was, envy that they got to date girls =P (yet that was somehow enough to convince myself that I was bisexual when I was younger... But that's a different story)
Heyhey! I'm a pansexual pole dancer! :D
Saeth ·
I'm a lesbian but none of the people at the two schools I went to know it. I'm not really one for dancing around going, "Hi, I'm a lez!" but if someone asks if I have a boyfriend, I'll say I'm a lesbian and no one has asked yet, ha :P That and the whole "Oh you are? Do you fancy me then?" is just my nightmare scenario. That and I've been wary of saying I am in dance class in case they think I'm going to perv or molest on them. Though sometimes it is hard when ladies are in little bitty shorts and heels, I've had to proverbially slap myself and focus on what I'm doing! It's a blessing and a curse. I'm a bit of a perv like Polekat but it's kept in check by my respect for the ladies. Also sitting there with dilated eyes and a drooling expression is a bit of a dead giveaway and will start all sorts of awkwardness lol. I'm really a very private person and as a consequence people get lots of shocks once they're let into my private world :P
tacha666 ·
I don't know if that helps, but I wouldn't feel awkward if a lesbian would fancy me, although I'm pretty sure I'm straight. So keep calm :-) I think the mojority of straight women aren't as homophobic as straight men.
