Hi nyxed!
Lap dance, as with most exotic dance, can be a little weird to put into a routine, because there are so few "moves" used, and yet you can string them along for a whole three minutes!
With exotic pole, a lot of the moves are sort of... "filler," so things like hip circles to show off, slow bows, and hair whips, as well as a lot of the leg stuff done on the ground, just aren't really written down as "moves," but they're the majority of the things you do!
I don't know of any specific examples for *these* moves, but there are lots of examples on Youtube to give you an idea of how a lap dance can be done.
Just remember to take it really, really slowly! As my studio instructor says, "No one likes a frantic stripper!" ;)
Good luck, and just remember to relax! You're allowed to not know and to flounder while you figure it out. Just keep playing!