When you think about whether or not torrenting is stealing, you should think about it this way:
The internet, in a way, is like a museum. For all intents and purposes, you walk in, browse around. When you like a picture you see, you right click and save the file. You aren't physically taking the file off of the page. You aren't destroying the poster's reputation by saving it. And you aren't paying for it. If they aren't asking money for it, no harm no foul.
When you torrent, it's a lot different. Torrenting would be like your friend walking into an ACTUAL museum, buying a Da Vinci painting, and putting it up in his home. This would cost him quite a bit of money. But because he's a nice guy, he puts the one of a kind painting in his super amazing "reproducer machine" and gives you a copy of it. So not only is the museum not making money off of that copy, but the artist did not create it officially and did not give the rights for someone else to make a copy. It would be like if someone cloned your daughter and started walking around and using her for their own purposes. You went through all of the trouble of raising her, why should someone who didn't pay for her (financially throwing supporting growth, or psychologically) get to adopt your child? But it's not adopting since you would still have your kid. There's just a copy of her running around doing God knows what being used for whatever purpose you could think of. And that's why there's such a big issue on torrenting.
So when you torrent Jamilla's, or Felix, or Alethea's dvds, you are stealing money from them. You might not be stealing the product, but you are stealing the money that would be going into their pockets as you are not paying for it. Not only is this rude to a fellow dancer, but it also encourages them to STOP making DVD's since they aren't turning a prophet. Pole isn't that huge of a sport in comparison to gymnastics, football, soccer, tennis, etc. We all come from various corners of the world, and I'm sure you know many dancer's here who don't have a studio within an hour's distance of them, maybe some as far as two. Some of us will never meet a pole artist due to the fact that there ARE no pole studios near by, or we don't make enough money to go to conventions and meet them. Those DVD's are there to help us. And also to help the instructors, who may have given up their real jobs just to teach people like you and me. I'm sure that when you charge $150 for a private, you're thinking that they might make bank. But think of how small of a pond they're swimming in.
In a way it's like exotic dance. Just because I work at Christie's and our only VIP option is $100 for three dances does not garentee that I will be making $100 or more that day. It's an OPTION, and us, or any other performer, athlete, human being, interacting with us is just as much their right and privledge.