roxi94 started this discussion ·
Soo a man I've known for a year now n completely in love with..he n I hv just started skyping again. Well I need some help on doing sexy stuff for him cause he really likes it when I do. I don't hv a pole...still lol but I got me. Any tips girls??
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Wear some nice lingerie & do a Chair dance routine or sexy dance routune w/floor work incorporated into it.
Veena ·
I agree chair, floorwork and you could do wall work too! If you want inspiration try doing a search here for floorwork challenges or Chair dance. 😉
roxi94 ·
Just I stink at this stuff cuz not easy for me to be open unless I'm in the mood n hv to be. But I want to open up more. Lol idk how to be ..sexy lol thanx for the tips ill look at some stuff. :)
Music! I need music that moves me, so find a song you love and that makes you want feel slinky/sassy/sexy :)
The chair, floor and wall are great to use! What type of music do you like? Rock, dub step, hip hop, country??? A great one to try is Wicked Game by The Weeknd, it's very sexy, Body Part by Ciara, Skin by Rihanna, Crave You (Adventure Club Dubstep remix) by Flight Facilities, Ain't Nobody (Breakage's Suck it up mix) by Claire Maguire, Feelin Love by Paula Cole. Hope this helps.
roxi94 ·
Thanks! I'll try it. I wish I cud record videos longer then few sec that I could post cuz I'd like to get everyone's opinion. But my camera is dead all I hv is iPod which is picky bout length lol ill try those songs. Want to do it for our 1 yr. :)
roxi94 ·
Think this is to slow?? Atb one small step And what if I did a quaestor n game and asked him what his favorite fast songs were and his favorite slow songs n I cud pick without him knowing I asked what music he's like for his show??? Lol
roxi94 ·
Think this is to slow?? Atb one small step And what if I did a quaestor n game and asked him what his favorite fast songs were and his favorite slow songs n I cud pick without him knowing I asked what music he's like for his show??? Lol
Onga01 ·
Youtube eva bembo.. She is an incredible exotic dancer with awesome awesome floor work amongst her pole stuff! I find her very inspiring :)
No such thing as too slow when it comes to sexy work! ;) Slow music forces you to slow down. A lot of dancers (myself included) struggle with rushing, especially when we're trying to be sexy and feel insecure/uncertain/nervous about it. Personally I'd advise you to pick a song YOU really like, not one that he has chosen. Yeah, it might be a nice surprise for him, but trust me, he's not there for the music. ;) Pick a song that revs your own engines and the sexy moves will flow naturally out of that.
