The author expressed frustration with people making jokes about pole dancing being a fallback career for stripping. They asked for advice on how to respond to such comments.
What the replies say: Many members suggested a witty or dismissive reply, or simply ignoring the comment. Others felt it was important to educate people about the artistry and athleticism of pole, and some acknowledged that instructors will inevitably have students with various motivations.
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