hi guys

Its been a while, I moved... Can't find the joist in my new place in my br I have a suspended ceiling and above it is cathedral....trying to talk my landlord into taking the ugly suspended ceiling down so i have 13ft ceilings...for now the Pole is down and i am sad... Thinking of trying in the lr for now but that making landlord nervous... I showed her the silicone on the to piece but she's very nervous ill crack the ceiling....I NEED MY POLE :(