TinyDancer04 started this discussion ·
Now that I've jumped back into the pole world, I'm constantly looking at cute little pole outfits etc but the thing Is I'm single! I feel kinda funny and embarassed that I want to order all this cute sexy stuff but I certainly don't have anyone to wear it for! Thoughts?
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Do it for yourself! if that is what will make you feel happy and good about yourself than i say go for it! =) it actually reminded me i have got a few cute lil outfits stashed in the back of the wardrobe lol ;)
Veena ·
Use the outfits to make videos! I think we pole dancers appreciate each others fun outfits more than our partners do anyway! LOL 😀
I agree with the if you don't have a partner to wear them for post vids so we can admire them. I'm lucky my spouse loves helping me pick out poling outfits and is pretty darn good at it too and appreciates them.
I buy little outfits and pretend its for the man. Really it is for me! I should dress cute for filming...but usually just go for sweaty/skanky. Yeah LAZY. I love seeing other people's cute outfits though :)
Hi all! I am having a hard time finding cute poling outfits for class. Any suggestions on where to find lycra shorts in colors other than red, white or black?
Hi all! I am having a hard time finding cute poling outfits for class. Any suggestions on where to find lycra shorts in colors other than red, white or black?
Heck who says you have to buy lingerie or cute stuff for a partner? Ack! Personally-i have a lingerie problem. Always have. Some people buy shoes and purses-i buy sunglasses and lingerie.I wear it for me. I like matching bras and panties. I love the feeling I get wearing them. I have been with hubby for over 20yrs and I can count on one hand the times I have bought anything sexy with him in mind. Those items also happen to be the ones that have been worn once and end up in a heap on the floor within 5 mins cuz they don't allow access to the girly parts If ya know what I mean. Lol So really-buy it because it makes you feel sexy. Makes you feel cute. True happiness with oneself starts with oneself. If you feel strong, sexy and empowered-that will radiate out to everyone around you!
MsBKitty ·
@RedVelvet... We have abou 10 different colored Lycra shorts at BadKittyExoticwear.com... And I agree... Do it for yourself! Dressup is FUN!!!
Thanks! I will take a look at the site and share with my class
Miraine ·
@Alesha84 - You definitely don't need a partner to justify buying cute outfits! The confidence that wearing nice stuff can give is just as important and attainable without. If you love to wear stuff and feel sexy for others, as people have already said: video for SV :D We'll probably have a greater appreciation for the outfit and effort itself to be honest... In my experience, my bf rarely cares what I'm wearing, it's usually just another obstacle to getting me naked, lol. @Reenie - Totally with you on the "lingerie problem" there. Despite my bf not caring, I could so easily spend a fortune on beautiful underwear... Figleaves.com is my nemesis! And I loooooove stockings. I'm so sad you can't really pole in them, lol.
