FEDEX is the bane of my existence!!!

dramatic, i know! so i ordered my pole a little over a week ago, it was supposed to be delivered on dec 7, i was so excited, even posted about it the night before, cause my hubby is sick of hearing me talk about it! 😕 ugh!!!! so upset. pole was not delivered tuesday, even though that was the delivery date. i waited around ALL day and yelled at my husband to watch for the fedex truck when i had to leave. and nothing. so i checked the tracking and all of a sudden where there used to be a delivery date was blank!!!!! It left CA on the 2nd and i'm only in NV, so REALLY??? even 5 days seemed a little long to me for it to come across the stateline! 🤔 when i checked it this morning there was finally a delivery date listed again. Dec 14!!!! and i'm thinking wth is taking so long. well i look at the detail tracking and apparently on the 7th they forgot to stop in NV bc on the 8th my pole was in SAINT PAUL!!!! as in MINNESOTA. WTF????? so now it has to come back to the western side of the country and i have to wait another WEEK!!!! 😈 ugh, so annoyed, so upset. I could have driven to CA to get it in person by now, lol