define "small hands"

So people say they have small hands all the time and use a 45 mm pole for that reason. I currently have a 50 mm pole. When I grip the pole, my thumb and middle finger are about  1/2 inch from touching eachother, so my fingers cannot wrap around the pole completely. Is that good, bad, or neither. I was taught on a SS 50 mm lilmynx pole, so I just figured i'd go with what I learned on as far as diameter, but I do fly off when my hands get sweaty, and feel like I can't do very many spins around the pole oon any one spin (if that makes sense.) Basically I can get a full revolution around the pole, maybe 2, before I am already on the ground.