OMG for all the paranoia abt this convo going awry... I think it's going GREAT! Nice job kicking it off, WM! And kudos to all respondents! Oh I have SOOO many thougts & feelings in this matter, but my fingers will NOT type fast enuf... So to take another maybe briefer angle, I'll just keep on rolling w/the hi-5's:
BZ - dude u r BAD ASS! Hockey dude-turned-poler! LOVE IT! So want to meet & pole jam w/u! Love ur story, thanks for sharing, & bravo on voting w/ur heart & $$. As for men in pole, whatev... I'm all for HUMANS & pole... My 2 young SONS are already becoming amazing pole monkeys! I'm so insanely proud of them! Ironically the problem we have at the studio I teach at is we don't have ENOUGH men, as we TOTALLY welcome them! Hey the more the merrier! And the more "balance" in types of people (gender & all other traits/styles/attitudes/preferences/etc) the better, for ALL of us!
ME -- u r a legend, don't even know if u r a title holder or not, doesn't matter... Keep doing what ur doing. I'll have to make a pilgrimmage to the MW comp at some point, I've herd so much abt it, always positive & w/high regrd & respect... but dang kinda a trek from my comfy corner in San Diego... One day...
And to the person out there who touted showcases as an alternative to competing, HERE HERE!!! Amen to those!! I say rather than growing the number of comps out there, how about we just increase our performance presence?! I mean, I really almost NEVER care who wins, I almost always have my own personal favorites when I go to a competition, and apparently the judges never agree w/me, so whatev... I go to support my friends, all the awesome polers, I love & respect them ALL! And want to learn from ANY & ALL of them!!! But mostly I see any pole event (comp or show) as just a REALLY awesome form of entertainment... And I tend to think the average Joe/Jane feels similarly... Where thankfully these fantastically talented & dedicated performers don't have to be relegated to an environment wherein they have to worry about takin items of clothing off to a very intimate degree to be able to be invited to strut their skill & be shown some appreciation for what they do.
(& before anyone goes bananas on me, don't even think for a second that I'm knocking strippers or strip joints! I luv & respect 'em all! But how sad would it be for a dancer that really would like to perform for an audience & only way she is allowed to do that is by agreeing to bare her top, & she is too shy or whatever to do that? And I bet there r still places out there where that's still the only "option" right now for some practitioners of pole... That's all I'm saying... Oh no, actually, 1 more thing I'm saying re poling in a strip club as ur "only public performance" option: how often have I not heard my stripper friends talk w/disappointment abt the lack of appreciation/applause/tips/etc they were met with after rockin' out some killer moves on the pole? Sadly we well know that not every patron that frequents such venues can value the skill / strength / etc of a pole dancer on stage... VERY diff from the crowd u know u can expect at a comp or other such pole show that goes nuts over a beautifully delivered gemini, nevermind a knockout spatchcock!!!)
Ok enuf from me (for now)... :)