The author was upset after receiving fat-shaming comments on a Facebook engagement photo and their YouTube videos from people identifying as pole dancers. They questioned the supportive nature of the community and shared their frustration.
What the replies say: Most replies strongly condemned the commenter’s behavior and encouraged the author to block them. Many members shared similar experiences with body shaming and emphasized that pole dancers come in all shapes and sizes, and that confidence is key. Several members expressed admiration for the author’s strength and positivity.
AI-generated, may be imprecise · updated 9/9/2026
