going back to newschik's original question, I have a question back for u: are u asking about this dynamic in other studios as an instructor for tips on how to deal with this situation ? or just asking for curiosity's sake? because I have answers on all kinds of levels for u about this, for both possible motivations behind ur question, based on what I do as an instructor, my opinions/reactions as a student, what the postion is at the studio where I teach, and what *actually* happens in practice... the latter of which I'll tell you boils down to the fact that this business -- like almost any other -- is a people business after all... people on both ends of the teacher-student equation, each with their motives/goals, & their respective personalities and styles of relating to people... just as one VERY micro example: as an instructor, when I've had the occasional overly-ambitious student impatiently wanting stuff they're not ready for, honestly there are typically just 2 types of students I'be seen tend to go there -- (a) the ones who know better (so they think) & (b) the ones who KNOW they really don't know any better at all. My response to the (b) types of these students is usually a very grave (almost severe) but brief explanation about all the strength or whatever skills are required to do move X and the bad consequences of not having that but attempting said move anyway, beyond just mere failure & frustration (injury, etc)... that usually has been enough for eyes to open wide with fear and then glaze over and then that one is squashed, moving on... the (a) types I find more difficult and frustrating, bc now they know more, almost too much but no where near enough at the same time... As I've heard said, "enough to do damage" -- or at least potentially to themselves mostly. These students tend to have more experience and really do have a better understanding of what it takes to conquer certain moves in pole, but not necessarily a COMPLETE understanding. Yet they tend to be the ones who are more stubborn and difficult to get "back on the right track". But I'm a bit of a meanie and the "strict mama" in me comes out and says: "ok let me see your caterpillar -- both sides -- at least 3 in a row... needs to be rock solid, no slippling, no prompting from me (meaning U GOT this)... after that I want to see the caterpillar CLIMB, same deal both sides, at least 3 climbs, etc... THEN I want to see little D, and then big D, & them I can maybe start getting you into that Ayesha..." ayayay, they also need to give me a solid shoulder stand with legs straight up (so I know they can control their core), etc... yes meanie, I know... but usually doesn't take much to pretty much squash the swagger and get us to get real and on the same page of what stuff is gonna take to achieve... that said, I have also had even MORE stubborn students than THAT who I have either handled by trying to get them excited about another (possibly related or complementary, but not necessarily) totally DIFFERENT move that is more appropriate for their level and they are more likely to succeed with (the old bait&switch I guess), or by simply telling them straight up I won't be that instructor taking them there until I've seen the right skill set demonstrated -- and I've seen these students either just go home and take this stuff on themselves or recruit the help of another more willing instfinda (who either might just not care or know better & often eventually find out the issue of why this person is bypassing previous instructors...) AYAYAY there are really so many things at play in this situation. As I mentioned earlier, my studio has it's own declared approach, based on a certain progression from clearly-defined levels (using PSO level classifications) with which every class is labeled in the class title to hopefully minimize confusion but also help set proper expectations (on behalf of both students and instructors), and also that instructors are strictly expected to stick to ("teach the level assigned to the class! not above, not below!" as studio owner would say)... NOW in practice, different things manifest... based on the dynamics between the specific student and teacher, the class as a whole, etc... most of the time levels are prob well adhered to, others might go up or down... and I really mean "or" -- I have definitely had to dial a class way back for some or all of students present based on what I'm seeing vs what the game plan theoretically was... or even surprisingly went WAY further than what was on the agenda... I also had a sad experience of a student having a frightening fall in learning Ayesha when she dotted all i's & crossed all t's of preparation and even pulled off masterfully with me spotting... but even THEN her head wasn't all there and ready, whammo... horrifying... so scary... think I been surprised by the opposite type of situation happening, but really only about 2x max... so I tend to err on the side of caution...
ok so if u made it to then end of this whole long dissertation, then in a nutshell there's just no easy answer to what to do about this phenomenon to control every time ("test" in place or not)...
as a student, just try to not let the insistence of others bother you: that's their journey, enjoy your own... and in your own pole story, hang onto that more conservative and precautionary penchant that assures your sense of safety, no matter what situation you're in while learning...