Veena - thanks so much for the clarification!! The rectus abdominis is what I'm talking about, and when you said it's one muscle I thought "wait...is everything I know about abs a lie?" and I went and looked at an actual medical drawing and it looks like everything I thought I knew about abs *is* a lie - it IS one muscle. Sheesh! Everyone talks about upper vs lower abs so I never gave it any thought before. Heck, I even read an article about isolating each ab muscle in the rectus abdominus and moving them independantly of one another. *facepalm*
I'm very short and "bottom heavy" with wide hips, a booty, and muscular legs. So yeah, it might just be that I'm trying to lift a lot of weight and I need more conditioning. It's crazy how our bodies make us good at different things. I've gone to a few other classes and met girls built like me and they've all got the same struggle - how do I get my hips to the pole? And they're all pretty comfortable with the same moves I am. XD
I've seen the tips for SM and they helped me get the prep! :) I'm just trying to lift from standing like I would in a regular SM. I know SM is pretty strength intensive so I'm not expecting to get it anytime soon. I've just been having a bad pole month and feel like I'm "stuck" with a lot of things, so I've just been trying different things to try and mix it up. I've also been having a blast dancing and I've seen great improvements in the way I move. Thanks for your words of encouragement - they are much appreciated! ❤ :)
I'm posting a pic here to show you the type of position I'm stuck in when I do SM prep. I'm stuck in a similar type of position in my tuck invert, too. I just can't get those hips up so I'm parallel to the ground. I get the same result regardless of whether I'm standing or lower on the pole, and I'm doing the step and sweep method so I am using some controlled momentum. I've tried Veena grip, cup grip, and now princess grip and it doesn't make much of a difference. It's probably a strength issue. I'm debating whether to do the invert or the SM program first. I just need to figure out how to fit it into my schedule so I still have rest days between the program, pole class, and conditioning class.