A 50mm for 45mm pole trade

I have a 50mm chrome xpole and I really really really want the 45mm. I'm a very little woman and have tiny hands but was assured I'd be fine with a 50 The boyfriend is never in a million years gonna let me buy the 45mm pole whilst so much else needs to be bought for our house 🙁 So just putting this post out to see if anybody would be up for a trade? Thanks 😀