oh well, im glad i at least got up there and did it even though im too fat to be a stripper

I am sorry you experienced that. A former student of mine had that happen at one of the "upscale" gentlemen’s club so she went to a different club (still reputable though) and was hired with just an interview. The club had recently lost one of their thick girls and she was the replacement. Some clubs have girl "quotas," meaning they have so many per type of girl working in the club at the time from style (rock, hip hop, girl next door) to body type (slim, thick, booty, huge boobs, no boobs). All I am saying is if it is what you really want to dance don’t let one guy tell you no. There are other clubs and believe me. Who cares what size, you are strong and sexy… always remember that and project it.