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Lost: 1 set of Boobs
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I've lost my bewbs too. And I cry about it every time I think about. it. I went from a full C cup to an A in a month when I quit the birth control pill for medical reasons. Being fit and a pole athlete doesn't help either.
I found out recently that I cannot get a boob job because of a heart problem I have. Looks like I am stuck for the rest of my life with small boobs. 🙁
I cannot buy bras anymore. It's so sad. The smallest size they sell around here is 32A but that is too big! My true size would be a 28A but no one sells that. FML! I even buy kids clothes a lot because womens clothing is too big in the chest because I don't have boobs to fill a shirt.
I've always had bad body image issues. I always feel inadequate as a women. I'm embarrassed to wear a bikini sometimes. Sometimes I'm embarrassed to be topless in front of my own husband. Because when we met I had huge porn star looking tits and now I look like a child. I feel like a women stuck in a 7 year old girls body. 🙁 I'm going to be 30 in 6 months and I'm often mistaken for being in high school! 🙁
The only place I'm comfortable about my small boobs is my pole studio. There we preach self acceptance and love your body the way it is. Thanks to SASS studio I'm comfortable strutting around in a sports bra. 🙂 Thank god!
Recently I've been working super hard on a self attitude adjustment. I've stopped buying Oxygen magazine and other fitness magazines because all the women in the magazines are all super lean with huge muscles.. and breast implants… This isn't an example of a healthy woman..
A healthy woman loses breast fat when she works out and gets in shape. It's a natural consequence of getting into shape and I wish society would view that as okay, and not okay to lose your boobs. So lately I've been taking a stand and not giving into societies pressure to look like the perfect women that doesn't exist unless you have 10 grand for plastic surgery. I think we should just all love ourselves the way we are. And accept the fact that breasts change a lot during your life time. (Weight, medications, pregnancy, hormones, fitness, etc) 🙂
Love ourselves ladies!!!!! <3 <3 <3
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My boobs are the biggest they've ever been (because of birth control), which means they're a full 36A. As opposed to the 36AA they used to be. HURRAY. I don't love it, especially because I have a huge ribcage and broad shoulders, and thus not even a small frame to match my small boobs. But what can you do, you know? I like my legs, so I try to focus on them, and dress to emphasize them and not my boobs.
@MrsNaughtywed: I'm sure you already know of the site, and it is fairly expensive, but you could try http://www.herroom.com/ . They definitely have your size. ALSO, it is my own personal opinion that you are stunningly beautiful. You don't at all look like a high schooler.
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What moves do you train a lot which you think might have contributed to you losing your chest??? I desperately want to lose some of my 34DDs, I really really dislike them but too scared to get a reduction surgery as I am trying to love my body as it is and also comments from other women going 'you should be thankful etcetc' but I'm a shy person by nature and anything I wear that is remotely fitted to my top just attracts stares from people and I HATE it. Bizarrely I think a few people in my classes think I have had an enlargement because they are way too big for my body size and I'm self conscious about people thinking I intentionally want big boobs…. I've been poling for 4 years and haven't noticed a drop in size :((((
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Ollie, unfortunately it's not possible to spot-train your body to just lose weight in one area. However, pole requires a lot of upper-body strength, much of which comes from the pectoral muscles that are the foundation underneath our breasts. Training the pecs can certainly change the appearance of breasts, but does not always reduce them – they may just become a bit more lifted.
Some people, myself included, just don't lose weight from their breasts. For others, that's the first place to shrink when they start losing. It's a pretty individual thing.
If you think a reduction would make you happier, don't be scared off by comments from other women. I totally relate to the comments of "You're so lucky" or "I wish mine were that big" to which I always reply, "Take 'em."
If your breasts cause you discomfort or pain, emotionally or physically, you don't have to force yourself to be grateful for them. It's not like naturally big breasts are some sort of privilege we take for granted (even if other ladies may feel that way). They can be a real burden. You wouldn't let others talk you out of getting a mole removed, so why your breasts?
Getting your breasts reduced is nothing to be ashamed of, and it does NOT mean you don't love your body, just that one piece of you outgrew the rest!
Yes, there's an element of vanity to it for anyone who doesn't need to get them reduced for medical reasons. You know what? OWN IT. Yes, I love my body, and I care about how it looks, and I care about how I feel in it. Got a problem with it? Tough – it's not YOUR body.
So seriously, don't let anyone else's words or sideways looks shame you out of a reduction if you think it would make you happier. Do it for YOU, not anyone else.
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And for the record, I don't think they look that disproportionate at all. You do have a small frame but they don't scream "obvious implant" to me. For what it's worth.
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Wow I have learned a lot from this thread. I've always had just an average chest at best. Tissue breakdown from breast feeding and hereditary I think, my mom had the same chest. She now has implants. I thought thats what I wanted so I could be pretty naked too. I think for some women there just has to be something we want and don't have. For me it's breasts. After my augmentation consult and getting ready for labs I realized I wasn't so thrilled with the idea. Sometimes I still have the overwhelming desire to have that but it goes away quickly. I'm okay with me and don't really feel the need to volunteer for another surgery, go thru recovery and face the risks. I'm good! lol
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Thanks https://www.studioveena.com/users/view/4d7ee58e-b72c-41ba-ba4d-088f0ac37250, makes me feel better 🙂 I am thinking reduction more and more recently but I will also up my training times to see if more pole = less boob lol I tend to lose weight first in my face and waist though, ah well
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