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Insulted by a mean girl
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@litlbit thank so much for your words! I’m so sorry you also had that bad experience and I’m very proud of you! Congratulations for your achievements and for your coming Birthday!!!
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We don’t see the world, we see ourselves.
Perspective is entirely subjective.
The window through which we view is but a mirror.
Nobody ever got better by pointing out that someone else was worse.Running out of proverbs but I hope you get the idea. While it is awful that you became her outlet, it has absolutely nothing to do with you, and everything to do with how small of a person she feels she is. Your videos affect her literally not at all. She is interpreting them and you as some sort of threat, and truthfully that is just pitiful. My heart aches for people so hurt, but it doesn’t excuse their behaviour.
So is he has projected those inadequacies onto you, and now it becomes your problem to deal with her insecurity, and it sounds like it has dredged up some of your own as well. I’m truly sorry that this happened to you, but I am glad you’re talking about it. And hopefully not letting it get to you too much! Bullies are sad people, but all we can do is have confidence in ourselves and neglect from feeding the trolls. Hopefully she will get some much-needed therapy, and in the meantime, you get back to your pole! 🙂
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Thank you @Wrecklice ! You are completely right
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Watched your video for the first time and really enjoyed it. This negative person may have something really horrible going on in her life which she has no control over like an abusive husband or boyfriend, mental health issues, maybe no freedom to take pole class, or even put a pole in her living area. Or she could just be an idiot. I had a negative female stalk me in another state, just a bad obsession once. I would think more about your safety and well-being then letting her remarks upset you. Thank you again for this video and reminding how beautiful and relaxing pole is to watch. Now another supporter of yours.
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Thank you @honolulusushi54312 really your words are appreciated! I was so sad when I received this girls comments, but I have found in all of you comfort and more energy to keep going!!! You are amazing !!!
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I am really sorry to know about this. You said the insults was in Portuguese, so there’s a chance that this girl is Brazilian. Here in Brazil, pole dancing is getting popular just now, in the past two or three years. And this year was the first time we saw pole dance in TV shows. So, we are starting to change the vision of brazilian people about pole dance.
The problem is that, at the same time, there is a wave of false moralism going on in the country because of some very conservative religious and political groups in our Congress. They don’t accept gay people, the only family concept that they accept is man, women and children, they are even making laws that obligate women that were raped and got pregnant to have the rapist son.
So, I would not pay attention to this comments. It must have come to one of those fanatic persons who doesn’t understand nothing at all about pole dancing and have this rage inside about everything that goes beyond their little world. Don’t you ever stop doing something you like because of someone else, especially for someone you don’t even know!
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@Joiceaimara you are correct, she was from Brazil, thank you for your comments and of course for letting me know something about your country, I assume you are Brazilian too. I have good friends in Curitiba and in Rio but I didn’t have any idea of the political and religion systems. I hope you don’t have any trouble there with your dance!
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DanZinDuck,
I saw this post, felt incredibly sad because people can be incredibly hateful and I’m very sensitive to other’s comments as well, and realized I have watched and enjoyed many of your videos on Youtube! I was like, “I’ve seen a lot of this dancer!” You are such a beautiful dancer. Just know that there are people like me who are silently admiring your talent.
Lots of love,
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@Arie Thank you si much for your words, you really make my day!!!
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