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  • Does you significant other request that you dance for them?

    Posted by poletrickster on May 18, 2010 at 2:47 am

    Or do you mostly just shove them in a chair and force them to watch you LMAO? I have danced 3 times for mine and he loved it when I did it but he never asks me to, I was just wondering if its this way for any one else. i pole for myself but its fun to be sensual and put on a little dance for the one I love occassionally I just wish he would ask for it without me telling him to.

    MommaBear replied 14 years ago 13 Members · 17 Replies
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  • AnjilsBaby

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 3:58 am

    i cant get my boyfriend to watch me dance to save my life lol, he watched me when i first got my pole, and now he wont even to spot me. i dont do too much of a sensual dance thing i just treat it as exercise and like to have him there to make sure i dont break my neck,and to show him all the cool new things i can do https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif but yea, after those first few times he refuses to watch because "its no fun when i can watch but you wont let me touch" he still doesnt understand that me sweating and bruising myself and pushing myself to the max does not inspire feelings of lust in me https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif

  • MommaBear

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 11:20 am

    he still doesnt understand that me sweating and bruising myself and pushing myself to the max does not inspire feelings of lust in me https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif

    https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif So true! My hubby gets on my nerves with that – he’ll come in while I am practicing with a shit!y grin on his face and harass me – I’m all like, I stink, I have pole rash, and I am working here!! Get out!!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif He spotted me once and can’t control himself – thinks it’s funny to pinch my nips or poke me in the butt while I am upside down and hanging on for dear life https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif Boys!!

    He likes to tease me and say, I didn’t buy you a pole so you could exercise on it, I bought it for me, so do something. So far I haven’t had to turn my fitness pole into a cheap sex object, but it’s only a matter of time. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif

  • AnjilsBaby

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 11:31 am

    lol mommabear im glad im not the only one dealing with that crap! he will come up once in a while, wait till im in the middle of a spin and jump behind me and try to do a "sexy dance" with me….im just kinda like "umm…you messed up my spin" https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif

  • nymphdancer

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 12:47 pm

    MIne does, although he gets plenty of dances just because I feel like it too. He is a great spotter and a good one to help me figure out how to preform new moves. I consider myself blessed lol https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif

  • Mary Ellyn

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 1:59 pm

    JIm usually asks ocassionally but he will also spot me and also can watch me and tell me what I’m doing wrong if I’m trying to figure a new move out or what I need to perfect as I’m practicing. The man can’t do anything but slow dance himself yet he’s completely got the concept of pole dancing. Remembers all the names and techniques too!

    Once in a while he askes for a pole "performance" and really enjoys that but usually it’s no touching during those routines.

  • minicoopergrl

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 2:20 pm

    ive done it once for his birthday one year but thats been it. I tried to do it again for his birthday but he decided to be a permenent jackass, its not gonna happen. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif

  • poletrickster

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 3:09 pm

    Glad to see I am not the only one!

  • Danielle Tillie

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 3:31 pm

    My boyfriend rarely says anything about it or asks for it but he does watch my videos with me when I’m done making them and he will play video games while I practice and every once in a while compliment something I did. I think he likes being surprised by a dance, because then he knows I really wanted to dance for him specifically. I have danced for him twice and he really liked it. No touching allowed during the dance but he knows he’ll get to touch afterward. I usually try to dance slow for him so I don’t sweat too much… but his reaction to me is what gets the lusty thing going! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif Also, I’ve found that planning a sexy shower after the dance is a nice way to get clean and smelling nice again. One time I lit some candles in the bathroom and after my dance (and a little bit of a lap dance, teehee!) I led him into the bathroom and he got the idea. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mrgreen.gif

  • Charley

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 4:30 pm

    ha! No. I have a pole room so unless he’s working in his office he never sees me practice. He will watch the occasional body wave or booty wiggle but he doesn’t have a lot of interest.

    I have to give him credit though, he watches new moves, gets excited enough for me and will watch my videos and point out how i have gotten smoother.

  • verucablue

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 5:38 pm

    I have not yet after 5+ years danced for my hubby…it was a whole topic once on another forum haha…and he wants me to but I never seem to do it…between work, life, the dog, my pole being in my livingroom – which sucks away the sexy mood and pole being really for me, it just never seems to happen. One day…the nice thing is is while he wants me to dance for him he doesn’t push…I will say he is an excellent spotter https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif

  • nymphdancer

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 7:43 pm

    lol VB! I ran across that thread while looking for something else on there and wondered to myself if the dance had ever happened. Guess I got my answer!

  • verucablue

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 7:46 pm
  • Veena

    Administrator
    May 18, 2010 at 8:29 pm

    Yes, my husband will even sometimes complain that I don’t dance often enough for him. BUT I’M TIRED. LOL I enjoy dancing for him though and he likes and can appreciate the tricks as well as the sexy stuff. I’m a luck girl!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_safesex.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_safesex.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_safesex.gif

  • Layla Duvay

    Member
    May 18, 2010 at 10:26 pm

    My husband never asks, he just know he’s going to get a dance, lol! I let him know on the day and call him when I’m ready and he SPRINTS into the pole room with a grin on his face! He thinks he’s the luckiest guy in the world!He’s a gentleman–he believes a man shouldn’t impose himself on a woman, but if she feels like it, to be ready! I love it, because he’s not always horndogging me, so that, conversely, makes me feel more like dancing for him. It’s the best foreplay ever! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif

  • PsychoticAndrea

    Member
    May 25, 2010 at 1:07 am

    He doesnt, and I dont really care for showing him my tricks, and spins when I do dance for him anyway, those are for practise and for work. He doesnt ask, but does get happy whenever I do dance for him, I do dance for him very sexy and the way he’ll like it.. he is my boyfriend after all what would the point of him being bored, thats my practice work out.

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