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  • Perimenopause Pole Dancer Support Group

    Posted by Veena on September 27, 2025 at 4:36 pm

    Hi guys! I wanted to start a support group for those of us going through our transformation while trying to start, or maintain our pole practice. I know first hand this is very challenging and I often feel so deeply alone.

    I’ve shared a little about my journey with perimenopause so far, and I would love to have a space where we can all safely (without judgment) commiserate, vent, ask questions, and share tips that have helped us.

    I’m doing my best to maintain the outlook that perimenopause is just leveling up, becoming wiser and more confident in who we are as people. Not only are we feeling physical changes, many of us are dealing with our kids teenage years, or they might be leaving us, and we often have to deal with aging parents too.

    I have one rule for this group, be kind and respect others who might take a different path. For example, HRT is a hot topic and it’s ok if you want to use hormones or if you don’t, please no shaming or belittling someone who chooses a different path from your own. We are are unique and not everything will work the same for everyone.

    Feel free to share blogs, podcasts, social media posts, videos, photos, stories of your own, questions, ideas, frustrations and anything else related perimenopause.

    Veena replied 6 hours, 25 minutes ago 3 Members · 5 Replies
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  • Ms_Rachelle

    Member
    September 27, 2025 at 4:51 pm

    Great idea! 51 here and looking forward to connecting with and hearing from other ladies going through their pole journey along with perimenopause.

  • Veena

    Administrator
    September 27, 2025 at 4:53 pm

    I’ll start! This woman Menopause Taylor (use to be Menopause Barbie) https://www.youtube.com/@MenopauseTaylor was so helpful!!! Thank you @mistygmorris721279 for sharing her YT channel

    Here’s my Podcast about Perimenopause and Pole https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_RHQholLn8

  • Veena

    Administrator
    September 27, 2025 at 4:59 pm

    Me too! It can be such a lonely time I think.

  • RubyRavage

    Member
    September 27, 2025 at 5:00 pm

    Hi, everyone! I’m Britney but my pole persona is Ruby Ravage. I started perimenopause early at 35, like all the women in my family before me. It’s been a few years and I’m struggling. It’s hard to get help. Excited to be here!

  • Veena

    Administrator
    September 27, 2025 at 5:05 pm

    Hey, hey! Welcome. It’s crazy how different it is for everyone. I know a few people who never even knew they were in peri and one day their period just stopped. I was totally in peri sooner than I realized. I don’t have any family that is able to tell me what they went through due to surgeries my older sister had, my other sister passed years ago, and my mom is 87 and dealing with dementia so she doesn’t recall much. She did tell me she remembers spending a lot of time crying in the trees lol

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