Like Paulette said, post an ad on here for a  "pole wanted." Also, do the same thing on your local craigslist. Lilmynx is a really good pole to get, especially if you are on a budget. If you can't find anyone selling either a cheap, lilmynx, x pole, platinum stages, action, or pole danzer pole, I'm with the other ladies on here and say just wait a little longer and save for the lilmynx. IF you can save up for a spinner, that would be the best option since everyone ends up wanting a spinner in the end…better to get it from the start (if you can) so you can save money and not have to buy a second pole. OR you could start with the stationary lilmynx, then save up for a different pole later that spins. I personally have had 3 separate poles, and am thinking about getting my 4th pole…

BTW, that fetish pole looks really cheap. The base alone makes me nervous. It looks like a shower curtain rod! It looks like it would snap off from the ceiling because the base would have no traction. You need a base that can grip the floor and a mount that can either grip the ceiling or screw into it and be sturdy. You can see what my PS base and ceiling plate look like, and it makes sense how it grips the ceiling and floor so well. https://www.studioveena.com/photos/view_photo/4ec9905a-9bb0-464b-bc40-3d2f0ac37250

The X pole has a similar sized base, and a ceiling dome, and each have a silicone ring that grips the ceiling and floor. The lilmynx has a mount that you drill one hole in the ceiling with a larger screw than the fetish pole. It also has rubber gripping feet on the bottom (and you can buy a non-skid floor pad as well.)