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the issue with drilling into the ceiling is that a lot of people (myself included) rent, so are unable to screw to the roof.
If I owned my house I would not hesitate to screw the pole in to the roof, as that's obviously the safest option. But for now, completely removeable (and easy to put up / take down) is definitely a huge priority.
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HIII!
there are quite a few jobs in australia (sydney, anyway) where having a chinese background will help. I'm studying mandarin at the moment, and I alwaysss see jobs advertised near where I live that say that having a second language would be helpful.
You'd be surprised, but there are actually a LOT of asians here, so don't worry too much!
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Also! when climbing, use socks!! It helps you to use proper grip and climb with the front of your ankle rather than the top of your foot (Which has lots of little bones)
I had the same problem, but it is now fixed thanks to socks!
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Loveeee this idea! Know exactly what I'm going to dance to!!
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I think that ultimately it comes down to the tone and manner in which it was said.
Like I stated in my previous post, I don't see a problem with pointing out someone can't do something based on their anatomy.
I think we live in a much-too PC world. If there was no intent to offend, and the teacher was merely pointing out that the reason the student was finding it difficult was because of size (whether too big or too small) then that is not offensive.
I wouldn't necessarily say it was constructive criticism either, as it's not reeeeally something you can just change on the spot. If the student was doing everything correct in order to do the move, but their anatomy was letting them down, then I think it is totally fair for the teacher to point out – "the reason you are not getting this is because you are too small / tall / thick / whatever". At least then the student knows that hand placement and everything else is correct. Unfortunately, not everyone is able to do everything all of the time. I think it would do everyone a bit of good to realise this and stop getting offended when this is pointed out to them.
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I was just about to post exactly what nymphdancer has said…thick does not always mean fat.
My teachers are always reminding us in class that we are all built differently, and therefore some moves won't work for some and will be really easy for others. Of course, if you can adjust the move slightly to enable a student to do it, then by all means do so. However, this isn't going to always be possible.
E.g. When I was in level 2 we did a pole climb, using only the back of the pole…so like an upright crucifix but with both legs behind the pole. It was pretty impossible for me to do this move because I have thin legs, and the gap between my thighs was bigger than the pole. Rather than holding on with my thighs like everyone else, I was squeezing with my knees which put a lot of pressure on them and possibly could have caused injury. Therefore, unless I "thickened up" I can not accomplish that move safely.
I don't see how it is offensive for a teacher to point this out. Like others have pointed out, I think they are doing a disservice if they don't.
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Belly button piercings are so dificult to heal because they are literally ina place on your body that moves so much – they're basically placed on your body's hinge.
So I wouldn't be worried that it's taken about a year, that's pretty normal. I think mine took about 7 months to heal completely, but in general I'm really good with healing piercings.
Just keep it clean with saline solution (dilute a bit of tea tree oil if you start to get scarring – this will help minimise it) and you should have no problems with it. It'll heal in it's own time. If your immune system is low, it might take longer to heal as well.
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hahaha yes!!!
It definitely makes it hard, especially because for some things as my thigh gap is bigger than the actual pole. I found pole sits impossible at first because I slipped straight through lol. But like Jellicrew said, there are certain ways you can tip your hips that create better points of contact.
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I'm sorry to hear you guys are having such a hard time with this!
Men can be so goddamn difficult. I'm lucky that I've never really been in a similar situation…if anything it's actually been the opposite. I've wanted it and he has been too tired / sick or whatnot. But never, would I ever make him feel guilty or shitty about that. Of course sex is an important part of a relationship, but it is not, and should not, be the be all and end all. If we go a week or two (or three) without, then I might get a little (ahem) frustrated, but I know it'll pick back up again.
The difference though between that and what you guys are going through is a degree of respect. Like you said horsecrazy, you're being treated like a piece of meat, which I think should absolutely not be on. This might be a bit extreme, but I feel I should mention it anyway, in case there are other people in same or worse situations…
If you say no, that should be the end of it. If you are sick, or if you just aren't in the mood then your partner has no right whatsoever to make you feel guilty or shitty about that. That is emotional abuse, pure and simple. It is manipulative. Further, if you say no and end up giving in just to shut him/her up then that is not consensual sex in the eyes of the (Australian) law. (It would probably be very similar to other countries that share similar viewpoints on sexual assault).
Betsyevil, I'm a bit concerned for your situation. I hope it all works out for you, but really, harassing you for not poling naked and not wanting to take naked pictures is pretty disgusting behaviour IMO.
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Oh wait I just realised you mentioned rare earth magnets.
Thanks heaps for that! Going to go hunt one down now!
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Thanks so much for all your help guys! I have just put it back up (which took me literally 5 minutes – So impressed! The first time I struggled so much it took me hours lol!). I think it was definitely overtight before, I used both Denise and Sensual's advice, and I'm confident on it now. It definitely spins smoother, yayyy.
DeniseL, do you have any recommendations for a magnet type that will be strong enough? Can I just buy one online? I think I might invest in one. It will make me feel a bit safer if I position it properly. And in the future I can bring it to friend's houses to play with and find their joists easily too!
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Well, tbh I'm not 100% certain it is under a joist to begin with. Which is also why I had my dad come and check it out (he is a builder lol). We're pretty sure there is one there, but can't be completely certain as it's too hard to hear and we can't climb up into that section of the roof and see it (very old house). Also, as the ceiling is plaster stud finders don't work (honestly, I think that makes the whole point of them pretty useless tbh!)
The ceiling is flat, and also because I am renting I can't screw anything in anywhere.
Anyway, my main issue is that I just want to know how do I know when it is tight enough? Because it feels like you can just keep on tightening for ages! I don't want it to fall down, but I also want it to be "loose" enough that it spins freely.
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Before I first bought it, I remember reading somewhere that it should be taken down quite frequently, but this is the first time I've taken mine down in like 3-4months!
I was reading a bit up on it last night, and read that you should allow plaster ceilings to re-settle every now and again.
I just couldn't find any specific answers as to how I'm supposed to know when it's tight enough to begin with, so I don't re-tighten it! I'm so scared of punching a hole through the roof!
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Welcome!! Lithuania is such an awesome country – I'd love to visit there one day. My boyfriend's flatmate is Lithuanian and she has the sickest accent!!
I don't think it makes you look too muscular either. I think girls who do gymnastics look so much more muscly! But that being said, as females we simply don't have enough testosterone in us to get that "manly" look. So I wouldn't worry too much about it.
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I would definitely give socks a go. I have had bad climbing technique for like 6 months, but after only 3 weeks of wearing socks my technique is now perfect! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif
I'm going to try climbing with both pointed feet now too!
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I used to get quite bad bruises on the tops of my feet when climbing. I asked my teacher about it, and she said it was because I was using wrong technique. Basically, what Veena said.
We don't use shoes at the studio I go to, but she suggested I bring socks to class. That way, you're forced to use the grip between your ankles, and your muscles in your upper body to climb, rather than using the top of your foot. Because if you try to climb using your feet you'll just slip!
Hope that helps!
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I really like the elliptical! It's sort of similar to running, still a high level of cardio but it's no impact so your knees don't get hit as hard!
If you find your missing the "runner's high", I'd suggest giving that a go if you haven't already!
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Aww that was really nice of you!!
Helping people is the best feeling!
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I love what Fever said, I think it sums up my views perfectly. I am definitely a feminist, and "feminism" is not a dirty word.
To me, feminism is about choice, and being empowered as a woman. I think this applies to so many things in life. I don't think you can be a feminist if you believe "women shouldn't do x, y and z" because that is imposing restrictions on someone based on their gender or sexuality.
I think poling fits in extremely well in this. Like willowbreath said, if pole dancing makes you feel strong and empowered then you should do it. If you get paid to do so, hey, more power to you (haha).
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j_Ib6JgNUNI <- thats the link! it's pretty funny!
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The Pole Dance Academy here in Sydney actually made a video for this I think! I'll try find the link for it!
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Thanks Sensualscimitar!
I'm glad that it's nothign too serious with you, and you got it checked before you could do serious damage to it!
I am thinking I need to go to the physio and get it checked out. I have had pulled groin muscles in the past from refereeing soccer (sharp turns in running), but it's the outside of my hip / leg that clicks when I do e.g. leg circles. I didn't end up going when I said I would because I fixed that calf pain, but I will go this week! I also have trouble doing anything when lifting my legs into a V, but I'm positive that's because of how tight my glutes are.
I think it's time to invest in a foam roller!
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I'm at Studio Verve in Sydney, and they also use 38mm brass poles. I think Scarletthoney is right in that 38mm is very popular over here.
I bought the 40mm x-pole x-pert when it first came out here, and I love it. I also love the 38mm, but do find it difficult as far as leg grips. I have a pretty massive thigh gap, so even doing crucifix and pole sits are extremely difficult on the 38mm. That has nothing to do with how tight I'm gripping, it's simply my anatomy.
Although only slightly bigger, the 40mm does make it easier for my legs to grip, while not compromising on hand grip either!
So I think it depends, but I can't even imagine dancing on a 45mm or 50mm. I feel they would be enormous compared to skinny poles!
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I love that idea KittyCat!
I think it would be really empowering!
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Wow. That was incredible!!
